Things have changed in certain respects since you have been there. Some for the better. Some not. You know we have largely had very different experiences from our prior conversations.
Like anything else, there are pros and cons, benefits, and trade offs.
It is not all good. It is not all bad. Pros have outweighed cons, hence Im still there after a decade.
I’m not going to go point by point and comment on everything you have said in this thread, some are true, some are not.
I think, however, you have crossed the line with putting the level of specific detail in a public forum. True or not, I don’t think you would take kindly to someone airing your dirty laundry.