post-grad plans

[FaLoRe]

I recently graduated in the spring, and since then a lot of my acquaintances have asked about my post-graduation plans when the topic comes up. So far I've ended up lying to most of them about my goals. I've been extremely private about the application process and would like it to remain that way. I don't want all eyes on me if I happen to "fall," so that's why I've refrained from telling anyone about it until I know for sure that I've made it. The only people that know that I'm applying are my family & closest friends. Have you guys done the same thing? Or am I being too paranoid about it?

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[Gryhu]

Thats what I'm doing. The less people that know, the less stress you'll be under. Best thing to do is relax, this process is stressing enough.

 

[DoctaJay]

lol, I guess it depends on your personality. I tend to be very open so everyone knew, my wife is not so much so I could see her doing that. Whatever makes the process easier for you. I know a guy at my church where everyone knew he was applying, and then when he didn't get in he had to deal with everyone in the church asking how the app process went. He's now a practicing surgeon, so it eventually worked out, but I can see how it would get annoying.

 

[web2linc]

People don't understand how frustrating the process is or how competitive it is to get into medical school. No one wants to be regarded as a failure. But at the end of the day, you have to divorce your ego from the process and stay humble. I figure it's probably best to keep it to yourself while applying. After you get in, you can celebrate, rejoice and tell the world!


If people ask, just tell them you are applying to a few schools and going to the process. If they ask where, tell them it's not important.

 

[JonteMD]

I think that there are benefits to telling others (family, friends, complete strangers) about your plans--you're more likely to accomplish them & the encouragement is ALWAYS nice. Often-times a bit of pressure is all you need to succeed (corny--I know).

 

[kappaken]

I can definitely agree with the comments above. I am a non-traditional student and it seems as if I have been chasing this dream forever!! I have told just about everyone I could tell that I was preparing for the MCAT. And I have taken the exam 2 times already and I am preparing again to take it soon. My decision in telling everyone was just to allow everyone to see how difficult the process of becoming a doctor really is. But somedays its harder to carry the burden than others. This time I told myself that I would be quite about the situation and see how it turns out. But if I am approached I would definitely tell the truth and be honest.