We don't have much choice unless we want to sell our house and give up my husband's income (his business is not able to be relocated without a severe loss of income). I'm a competitive applicant for my state school (pending MCAT results) so I figured it's the best choice for us.
If I don't get into my state school early decision I *might* apply to UCSF and Stanford as well. I have family near both of those schools who could help with the children while my husband stayed where we live now, but that's obviously not even close to ideal. Plus, I think my chances of getting in EDP to my state school are higher than my chances of getting into UCSF or Stanford at all.