The time is part of the job. He says that no one "chooses" this line of work. You are called and have no choice. I can't imagine him doing anything else. He doesn't want to do anything else. In college, he got a degree in Russian Studies and International Affairs b/c he wanted to work for the CIA. I can't imagine it. (
And, yes..I am sure he is not an agent..I see him at work way too often

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So, yes...he is going to remain in ministry. I think it is wonderful. Our faith is very important to us. People don't realize that it is probably harder for pastors and their families to remain "fed" when they are expected to "feed" everyone else. He really enjoyed chaplaincy, so he found a program at the hospital where my post-bacc has linkage where he will be doing another chaplain residency and earning another Masters.
We don't mind the time commitment. I knew what I was getting into when I married him. What we mind is the rudeness. The week his mother died (last May) he didn't skip a beat. He did all his visitations, etc and then was there when they took her off of life-support. But, everyone acted like nothing had happened. It was awful. I have watched this man cry himself to sleep. I have watched him read the Bible to a dying woman (week before last in fact). He has paid for a homeless man to have a hotel room for 3 nights out of our pocket. The man would give you the shirt off of his back, but no one that I know would do anything close for him. It hurts like H3II to be treated like this and watch him being abused.