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I am a medical student and OB/GYN has always been a big passion of mine. Being a husband and father has given me a unique perspective. I know that my family is my first priority and I actually see that as a strength professionally rather than a weakness. If my life at home is happy, ill be a better doctor.
Lately I’ve considered FM which I still think would make me happy. I plan on practicing in a relatively rural area of the country where FMs are still delivering. i wouldn’t rule out an OB fellowship either to acquire operative OB skills. Truly, though, surgery isn’t super important to me For the sake of being a surgeon. The reason I still consider OB is because I really want to be able to offer a fuller spectrum women’s health that I know I wouldn’t have in FM. Like infertility, not having to refer out for female surgeries, more complicated conditions, etc. so again, it’s not the “being a surgeon“ that makes me hang on to the possibility of OB, it’s more so the ability to offer more to my favorite patient demographic (women).
Now, what I’m wondering is if making these inevitable lifestyle sacrifices for OB would be worth it. Sure, my patients would have Access to more care if I have that training, but I don’t want my own girls (wife and two daughters) to disproportionally suffer.
Is it possible to have a reasonable lifestyle in OB? Does working in too big a group distort continuity of care and personalized healthcare? How small is too small in terms of a group of OBs to the point where my life would be overburdened?
2 year male med student.
Anyone have a current setup that they love and facilitates the realization of similar goals?
Lately I’ve considered FM which I still think would make me happy. I plan on practicing in a relatively rural area of the country where FMs are still delivering. i wouldn’t rule out an OB fellowship either to acquire operative OB skills. Truly, though, surgery isn’t super important to me For the sake of being a surgeon. The reason I still consider OB is because I really want to be able to offer a fuller spectrum women’s health that I know I wouldn’t have in FM. Like infertility, not having to refer out for female surgeries, more complicated conditions, etc. so again, it’s not the “being a surgeon“ that makes me hang on to the possibility of OB, it’s more so the ability to offer more to my favorite patient demographic (women).
Now, what I’m wondering is if making these inevitable lifestyle sacrifices for OB would be worth it. Sure, my patients would have Access to more care if I have that training, but I don’t want my own girls (wife and two daughters) to disproportionally suffer.
Is it possible to have a reasonable lifestyle in OB? Does working in too big a group distort continuity of care and personalized healthcare? How small is too small in terms of a group of OBs to the point where my life would be overburdened?
2 year male med student.
Anyone have a current setup that they love and facilitates the realization of similar goals?