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1) We have experienced all kinds of poop: The kind that runs out the side of the diaper and onto the floor, the kind that squishes up your child's back, the poop that is like spackle, green, black, or yellow newborn baby poop...We know all about poop and we can handle it all.
2) We have been peed on in one way or another. Boys pee in your face amd girls dribble down onto the couch so the next time you sit down it is in a puddle.
3) We have all been puked on at least once and it was quite possibly in our face.
4) We are experts at wiping runny noses and handing out band-aids.
5)We understand what it is like to have a sick child and what it is like to worry. Even though our children may only have a cold or the flu, we can understand the helplessness and fear of not being able to help someone we love.
6) We are used to surviving on three hours of sleep.
7) At one point or another we have been covered with every bodily fluid imaginable and we can still smile.
8) It teaches us unconditional love, selflessness, compassion, and patience, all of which are qualities that help make a great doctor.
9) 😍 It teaches us to be able to love another human being more than ourselves and how to sacrifice.
10) We already know how to take a rectal temp. (Even worse, I had to give one of my kids an enema....😀 )
11) We already know how to treat ear infections, colds, the flu, tears, scraped knees, and broken hearts.
12) Mothers are strong, tough, and determined and pretty much just kick a$$.

I ran out of reasons. Please add to my list.😀

:luck:
 
We know the power of a spongebob sticker!
 
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i haven't go see my doctor for so long 'cause my mom can treat almost every common illness. She is not even a nurse.

So, i gotta agree with doctormom.
 
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i haven't go see my doctor for so long 'cause my mom can treat almost every common illness. She is not even a nurse.

So, i gotta agree with doctormom.
:laugh: 👍
 
My mom and my grandmother, with no medical training whatsoever, can make almost any illness go away with a simple rubbing and good homemade chicken soup. 😀
 
The power of the osteopathic touch trained to our grandmothers! lol Gotta love it!
 
My mom and my grandmother, with no medical training whatsoever, can make almost any illness go away with a simple rubbing and good homemade chicken soup. 😀

My grandma can make any pain go away just by placing her hand over the spot where it hurts. I think she channels her energy to pull the pain away. Freaky thing is, it works.

Speaking of chicken soup, there was actually an article about it in the NY Times a while back. Something to do with it's medicinal properties.
 
1) We have experienced all kinds of poop: The kind that runs out the side of the diaper and onto the floor, the kind that squishes up your child's back, the poop that is like spackle, green, black, or yellow newborn baby poop...We know all about poop and we can handle it all.
2) We have been peed on in one way or another. Boys pee in your face amd girls dribble down onto the couch so the next time you sit down it is in a puddle.
3) We have all been puked on at least once and it was quite possibly in our face.
4) We are experts at wiping runny noses and handing out band-aids.
5)We understand what it is like to have a sick child and what it is like to worry. Even though our children may only have a cold or the flu, we can understand the helplessness and fear of not being able to help someone we love.
6) We are used to surviving on three hours of sleep.
7) At one point or another we have been covered with every bodily fluid imaginable and we can still smile.
8) It teaches us unconditional love, selflessness, compassion, and patience, all of which are qualities that help make a great doctor.
9) 😍 It teaches us to be able to love another human being more than ourselves and how to sacrifice.
10) We already know how to take a rectal temp. (Even worse, I had to give one of my kids an enema....😀 )
11) We already know how to treat ear infections, colds, the flu, tears, scraped knees, and broken hearts.
12) Mothers are strong, tough, and determined and pretty much just kick a$$.

I ran out of reasons. Please add to my list.😀

:luck:

NO FREAKIN JOKE. Its about time somebody give respect to those mother doctors out there!!!!!!!🙂 🙂 🙂
 
My grandma can make any pain go away just by placing her hand over the spot where it hurts. I think she channels her energy to pull the pain away. Freaky thing is, it works.

Speaking of chicken soup, there was actually an article about it in the NY Times a while back. Something to do with it's medicinal properties.

I've heard of the hand thing as well. One of my aunts tried it on us one Christmas (which is when I get to see my crazy family). You just place your hand over the spot, without actually touching. It feels really warm after a while...and yeah, it does work.
 
I actually wrote one of my app essays last year about how being a mom was the best preparation for being a physician. It was for MSU and I got a very early OOS interview invite (I ended up canceling the interview when I got into another school - the OOS tuition is KILLER).
 
NO FREAKIN JOKE. Its about time somebody give respect to those mother doctors out there!!!!!!!🙂 🙂 🙂

👍 You are just being supportive because I will be your classmate in August, lol! JUST KIDDING!😉 I look forward to meeting you in August!!!😀
 
i actually have to agree. i really think my mom should have pursued science and medicine in india rather than business and accounting.
 
1) We have experienced all kinds of poop: The kind that runs out the side of the diaper and onto the floor, the kind that squishes up your child's back, the poop that is like spackle, green, black, or yellow newborn baby poop...We know all about poop and we can handle it all.
2) We have been peed on in one way or another. Boys pee in your face amd girls dribble down onto the couch so the next time you sit down it is in a puddle.
3) We have all been puked on at least once and it was quite possibly in our face.
4) We are experts at wiping runny noses and handing out band-aids.
5)We understand what it is like to have a sick child and what it is like to worry. Even though our children may only have a cold or the flu, we can understand the helplessness and fear of not being able to help someone we love.
6) We are used to surviving on three hours of sleep.
7) At one point or another we have been covered with every bodily fluid imaginable and we can still smile.
8) It teaches us unconditional love, selflessness, compassion, and patience, all of which are qualities that help make a great doctor.
9) 😍 It teaches us to be able to love another human being more than ourselves and how to sacrifice.
10) We already know how to take a rectal temp. (Even worse, I had to give one of my kids an enema....😀 )
11) We already know how to treat ear infections, colds, the flu, tears, scraped knees, and broken hearts.
12) Mothers are strong, tough, and determined and pretty much just kick a$$.

I ran out of reasons. Please add to my list.😀

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HAHA thats cute, but as a single male with out kids I REFUSE to believe that... hahaha!!! And i have to go to school with you... ohhhhh NOO!!!!! jk
 
true!
i think they'd make excellent nurses too.
 
👍 You are just being supportive because I will be your classmate in August, lol! JUST KIDDING!😉 I look forward to meeting you in August!!!😀

Yo DoctorMom:

You have a point: I am a pleaser baby!!!!! LOL:laugh: It nice to know that there will be some laid back, down to earth people going to school with me...
 
Speaking of chicken soup, there was actually an article about it in the NY Times a while back. Something to do with it's medicinal properties.

I read the research paper on it. Although amusing, it was not a very practical study. It basically involved checking leukocyte activation literally in chicken soup. However, when you eat chicken soup your blodd does not turn into chicken soup, lol.
 
you are soooo right here😀 , but here are some more reasons:

I think mothers are good at making schedules and organizing their activities and things to be done also. We know how to juggle things around. You wake up one sunny morning and think that you are going to your test right after you drop off couple or in some cases even more kids at daycare or school, and...just 10 minutes before the test you get a ...call from the school: Mrs. so an so please pick up your child from nurses station she has a temp, or vomited or even better needs stitches. What is regular student will do? right, PANIC😱 . But no you grab your backpack and run to your car dialing all the phone numbers stored in your phonebook. Can somebody cover for you? By the time you at the door of the school you understand that you are on your own. Time is ticking....You grab your kid and run back to school holding ice bag on his forehead/brown bag in case of future accidents. Come to school, take the test, take kid to a doctor or home, make chicken noodle soup, in between study for your Friday test and go pick up other kids from school. How about that? Well, crazy days like that do not happen often, but it sure does happen. And we are prepared because we have been practicing.😀

P.S. But I am amazed by DoctorMOM78 who has 4 kids, oh boy! How old are your kids? who will be helping you when you are in school?

👍 😀 LOL! I forgot all those. My husband is incredibly supportive!:luck:
 
HAHA thats cute, but as a single male with out kids I REFUSE to believe that... hahaha!!! And i have to go to school with you... ohhhhh NOO!!!!! jk

LOL! Why don't we have a smiley face sticking its tongue out?!?!
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Definately more efficient at time management
Can't procrastinate because if you do someone is bound to end up sick
We can concentrate even during the most annoying distractions
We can multi task like no other (study Ochem, while bouncing a baby, standing up)
Our communication is top notch
We get to be someone else's hero and SHOW them that thy too can do anything they set their mind to 😀

I also wrote part of my personal essay on this. I want to go into FP and I think I will be able to relate to my patients better because I am a mother. I have been on both sides of the table. I was a kid, teenager, teenage mother, mother, woman, etc. I can relate to a wide range of patients. I LOVE being a mom and I am so happy I did life backwards 😛
 
Definately more efficient at time management
Can't procrastinate because if you do someone is bound to end up sick
We can concentrate even during the most annoying distractions
We can multi task like no other (study Ochem, while bouncing a baby, standing up)
Our communication is top notch
We get to be someone else's hero and SHOW them that thy too can do anything they set their mind to 😀

I also wrote part of my personal essay on this. I want to go into FP and I think I will be able to relate to my patients better because I am a mother. I have been on both sides of the table. I was a kid, teenager, teenage mother, mother, woman, etc. I can relate to a wide range of patients. I LOVE being a mom and I am so happy I did life backwards 😛

Multi-task...yea, I can breastfeed a baby while typing a paper and talking on the phone!:laugh: I am going into family medicine too, and I totally agree with you about relating to patients. I also love being a mom and am happy I did things backwards too! 😀
 
You make the ASSumption that us dad doctors have not been through the same/ similar crap.
 
You make the ASSumption that us dad doctors have not been through the same/ similar crap.

Well check this out Bro: if you have kids, then yeah, us Dads have seen poop. But any guy is crazy if they think that they deal with that kind of stuff more than Moms, unless the mom is a crack-head and just neglects her kids all day long. I have 2 little ones, and yeah, I have been pooped on a bunch, but my wife deals with the brunt of it all WAY more!!
 
You make the ASSumption that us dad doctors have not been through the same/ similar crap.

Definately no assumption here! My hubby is FANTASTIC! This thread was just directed towards moms, however, I think Dads can be included too 😀 I do think though that moms get much more sick, up at night, diarrhea, etc. :laugh: 😉
 
All I can say I am amazed that you guys are going to med school while having children. Bless your hearts. I can't imagine how hard it must be to keep up with everything. Good luck to all of you😍
 
Well check this out Bro: if you have kids, then yeah, us Dads have seen poop. But any guy is crazy if they think that they deal with that kind of stuff more than Moms, unless the mom is a crack-head and just neglects her kids all day long. I have 2 little ones, and yeah, I have been pooped on a bunch, but my wife deals with the brunt of it all WAY more!!

You are just racking up the brownie points😉 , lol! Your wife must love you!:laugh:
 
All I can say I am amazed that you guys are going to med school while having children. Bless your hearts. I can't imagine how hard it must be to keep up with everything. Good luck to all of you😍

Thanks! Honestly, I think it will be easier with kids in some ways. As previously posted, we already know how to balance our time and handle LOTS of stress and all that icky stuff. Good luck to you too!😀
 
You make the ASSumption that us dad doctors have not been through the same/ similar crap.


I am not making any ASSumption. Like medmom posted, my husband is incredibly supportive. He is a wonderful father and helps me out with the kids a lot. But, I am generally the one who gets up at night or takes the kids to the doctor, etc. Mothers tend to take on more of the role as caregiver and dads tend to do more of the other "fun" stuff. Not that my husband doesn't do bandaids and boo-boo bunnies, but we just tend to have differents roles and responsibilities in taking care of our children. Regardless of your gender, having children changes your life and I respect anyone who is a good parent to their child. Hey, make a doctor dad thread if you want.😉 😀
 
Definately no assumption here! My hubby is FANTASTIC! This thread was just directed towards moms, however, I think Dads can be included too 😀 I do think though that moms get much more sick, up at night, diarrhea, etc. :laugh: 😉

I'm living at home during my off year, and I recently was pretty sick, I threw up something like 8 times in a day. My mom was hte one holding up my hair and she actually mopped up when I didn't make it in time to the toilet bowl, whereas my dad ran the other way. He went out, bought me ginger ale, and when he came back, he heard me retching, and he dropped off the bag and went back down the stairs and out the door. Not to say that all dads are like that. But my dad definitly prefers to avoid that kind of stuff. I doubt he ever learned ot change a diaper :laugh: But I still think I got the best daddy.
 
I am not making any ASSumption. Like medmom posted, my husband is incredibly supportive. He is a wonderful father and helps me out with the kids a lot. But, I am generally the one who gets up at night or takes the kids to the doctor, etc. Mothers tend to take on more of the role as caregiver and dads tend to do more of the other "fun" stuff. Not that my husband doesn't do bandaids and boo-boo bunnies, but we just tend to have differents roles and responsibilities in taking care of our children. Regardless of your gender, having children changes your life and I respect anyone who is a good parent to their child. Hey, make a doctor dad thread if you want.😉 😀

you can make teh same argument for moms being worse doctors because they will get too attached and make poor decisions:meanie:
 
you can make teh same argument for moms being worse doctors because they will get too attached and make poor decisions:meanie:

😛 This is apparently the smiley that is sticking its tongue out. :laugh: While I am a woman and am an emotional person who cares deeply, this will never interfere with my decision making capabilities. I do not make decisions based solely on emotion, but rather my emotion complements my logic. I have worked in the medical field for years and while I do become attached to the patients I have contact with, it does not interfere with my professionalism or my job performance. Instead, my compassion and emotion drives me to advocate for my patients and helps me to provide the best care possible. I know that this will continue on as I become a doctor. I could argue that men are not emotional enough and therefore will make poor decisions because of that, but I would rather not start a gender war. 😉 So, be nice!😀
 
you can make teh same argument for moms being worse doctors because they will get too attached and make poor decisions:meanie:

No way. Moms are tough as hell. I helped a couple of residents hold my 2 year old son down while they performed a spinal tap on him. Hands down one of the most hardcore things a human will ever do.

The only thing I could think to add: between OB visits and ped visits, we've spent so much time in doctors' offices, we know exactly what kind of doctor we want to be. 👍

Everything else has been so right on!
 
I was just teasin.. had to bring down the estrogen pride a little:laugh:


LOL!!!😀 Well, my DCOM thread turned into a big testosterone-fest, so I had to let the estrogen out somewhere.😀

Oh, and next time put some smileys or something so we know it is a joke. You don't want all these soon-to-be women doctors directing all their estrogen at you. Hell hath no fury....LOL!!! I thought you were joking, but you never can tell around here. 🙂
 
No way. Moms are tough as hell. I helped a couple of residents hold my 2 year old son down while they performed a spinal tap on him. Hands down one of the most hardcore things a human will ever do.

The only thing I could think to add: between OB visits and ped visits, we've spent so much time in doctors' offices, we know exactly what kind of doctor we want to be. 👍

Everything else has been so right on!

WOW! That is tough! Poor baby! I had an LP once and it was truly one of the most horrible, excrutiating things I have experienced. I can't imagine having it done to my two year old. WOW!!! It is hard enough to hold my kids down for routine immunizations. I hope everything was ok. You definitely win with that one. 🙂
 
The only thing I could think to add: between OB visits and ped visits, we've spent so much time in doctors' offices, we know exactly what kind of doctor we want to be. 👍

I actually used this as a part of my "clinical experience." I had very little clinical experience as a part of my application, so tried to emphasize the amount of practical experience I've had with various physicians.
 
We constantly experience the whole threshold of human emotion and humanity in general. We see unrestrained anger, fear, joy and love daily from our kids (especially those in my children's age range).
We also understand whats really important and will be less likely to get bogged down by the small stuff. For a child, the love, encouragement, and time given to them from their parents is more important that the cost of their toys, clothing, and the decorations in their room. Maybe that will help us see the patient and try to touch them as a person, in addition to helping us realize the lives we touch are more important the the stuff we accumulate.
 
That's the mean one though!:laugh:

I hope I won't get attacked for this...and I am really asking this as an honest question because I always wonder about if i want to have kids and how feasible that would be (i am 23 by the way)
but are you not worried how spending so much less time with your children (especially the really young ones) will affect them?
 
I am concerned about this. I guess I feel that since neither me nor my husband had a career that gave us the liberty to have one of us stay at home, and I was the one of us that was closer to having that career (husband hasn't gone to college) and I was the one who was motivated to have that career, then I should be the one to do it. My husband may decide in the end not to be a stay at home dad, but I'm guessing that he will be a stay at home dad.
I feel that my children will be better off with one parent with a career, and one at home, than both of us with a career that barely pays enough to support the whole family.
In addition to the above, I'm not a stay at home mom type. I don't have the patience, but applaud any woman that does.
 
I hope I won't get attacked for this...and I am really asking this as an honest question because I always wonder about if i want to have kids and how feasible that would be (i am 23 by the way)
but are you not worried how spending so much less time with your children (especially the really young ones) will affect them?


:meanie: :meanie: :meanie:+pissed+ Just kidding! I won't attack you. LOL! It is a valid question. Of course I am concerned with the impact my career choice will have on my children. My father is a doctor and he always worked late and was always busy, but when he was home he was very loving and spent lots of time with us. I think as long as you spend quality time with your children, the actual amount does not matter that much. There are plenty of parents who are "with" their children all the time, but don't actually spend any real time with them. Fortunately, I also have a husband who is wonderful with our kids and that really helps. It is a matter of opinion and a bit of a balancing act, but I know that I am not the stay-at-home, soccer mom type. I feel that I am actually a better mother to my children because I am pursuing my dream and therefore I am happy. 😀
 
1) We have experienced all kinds of poop: The kind that runs out the side of the diaper and onto the floor, the kind that squishes up your child's back, the poop that is like spackle, green, black, or yellow newborn baby poop...We know all about poop and we can handle it all.

Quite necessary

2) We have been peed on in one way or another. Boys pee in your face amd girls dribble down onto the couch so the next time you sit down it is in a puddle.

Has happened to me

3) We have all been puked on at least once and it was quite possibly in our face.

Hope you had your mouth closed!

4) We are experts at wiping runny noses and handing out band-aids.

Hmmm...sounds like nursing duties...half credit! 😉

5)We understand what it is like to have a sick child and what it is like to worry. Even though our children may only have a cold or the flu, we can understand the helplessness and fear of not being able to help someone we love.

Invaluable

6) We are used to surviving on three hours of sleep.

See comment for #5

7) At one point or another we have been covered with every bodily fluid imaginable and we can still smile.

Thats just weird. 🙂

8) It teaches us unconditional love, selflessness, compassion, and patience, all of which are qualities that help make a great doctor.

True

9) 😍 It teaches us to be able to love another human being more than ourselves and how to sacrifice.

😍

10) We already know how to take a rectal temp. (Even worse, I had to give one of my kids an enema....😀 )

Nursing again I think.

11) We already know how to treat ear infections, colds, the flu, tears, scraped knees, and broken hearts.

Materia Momica

12) Mothers are strong, tough, and determined and pretty much just kick a$$.

Agreed

I ran out of reasons. Please add to my list.😀

#13 Moms are great for study groups because they always bring the big box of coffee from Dunkin Donuts...even when its not their turn!
 
Quite necessary

Has happened to me

Hope you had your mouth closed!

Hmmm...sounds like nursing duties...half credit! 😉

Invaluable

See comment for #5

Thats just weird. 🙂

True

😍

Nursing again I think.

Materia Momica

Agreed

#13 Moms are great for study groups because they always bring the big box of coffee from Dunkin Donuts...even when its not their turn!

👍 👍 😀 😀 😀
 
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