Here is the situation: -I have been with my gf for fours years now. -My gf is a 4th year med school student. We agreed that she would apply only to residency program in the same state where we live to try to match where we are. -Yesterday, she told me that she will have to apply for other programs that are 2.5 hours away from where we live and that she will commute daily. (5 hours driving + working hours). -She suggested we move closer. however, where she wants to move will cut out only 1 hour. -We are madly in love and dependent on each other.. She is a great person, and we really supported each other through our school, career, and life. What should I do?