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So I know this is extremely off topic for this website, but seeing as you are all medical students I would like your take. I am a first year medical student living with two other first year medical students. I ended up becoming super close with one of my roommates, but I resent the other. I won’t go into details about the relationship, just understand that we are not a good fit and his presence in the house actually changes my mood. I have decided that I don’t want to live with him next year, but I don’t know when the best time to tell him would be. I own the house so kicking him out is the only option. In my mind I have two options for how to approach this. The first would involve me telling him before the 1st year of school ends, but that may affect his studies as well as making the living environment super awkward. The second option involves me telling him at the very end of first year, but this only leaves him two months to find living arrangements before 2nd year starts. Although we aren’t good roommates, I don’t have anything against him so I still want him to do well in class and have the possibility of rooming with someone who is a better fit. I don’t have any issues with bringing up the conversation I just don’t know when the best time would be... what do y’all think?