NatCH,
That's exactly why I specifically stated in my post not to be "cocky"!!!!
Yes, you certainly did! You also gave much other very valuable advice. I simply wanted to emphasize that offering help to someone who hasn't asked for it is perilous.
Picture this:
Receptionist: "Dr. PADPM, there's a young man here who wants to introduce himself. He says he's a podiatrist who is considering moving here."
PADPM: "Okay, send him in."
Young DPM: "Hello! My name is Dr. Hugh Bris and I just wanted to introduce myself because I'm considering moving here. I'm finishing up a PSR-36, and if I come here I'd be available to help you do your complicated cases. If you were to send your difficult cases to me, I would make sure to send the patients back so you can do the routine stuff afterwards."
Right about then you would probably think to yourself, "Who the F is this guy??? Who does he think he is? Why the hell would I need his "help?" I've been in practice 23 years, used to be an ABPS examiner, was involved in training residents..."
See what I mean? How a person words his offer is crucial. One doesn't want to insult the other person while supposedly being gracious. One has to be EXTREMELY tactful, and you and I both have observed people being not so tactful right here on this forum. I know you've seen it in person too, because I sure have. People pay little attention to interpersonal skills these days.
When I was in Residency we had this particular Attending who would bristle when a Resident would show up at the OR and announce, "I'm here to help you out on this case." The Attending would reply, "I don't need your help; I can do it by myself just fine." Then he would send them away. If we showed up and said, "May I be your assistant today?" he would love you and let you run the case. It was a matter of semantics, yes, but it made all the difference in whether you went home or if you got to log a "C" case.
Diplomacy and tact can make all the difference between success and failure. I'm just saying to the OP that he should choose his words carefully if offering "help" when first meeting an established practitioner.