Are you sure keeping her inpatient would have made a difference?
I think it would've.
Her long-term risk was still tremendous but there were possibilities she could've gotten her life back on track.
In short, she was a teacher that loved her job. She became manic, during her mania, she hooked up with an physically abusive and antisocial loser. She was married and her husband didn't want to have anything to do with her unless she stabilized for at least one year. The father got full custody of the child. Even after she stabilized, no school was willing to touch her with a ten foot pole. The antisocial loser spent over 100K of the patient's savings on drugs. She went from respectable middle class person to woman trapped in a relationship with a stalking a-hole.
(By the way, remember that. I only learned that after residency. If a teacher is mentally ill, even if he/she stabilized, expect the person to be defacto black-listed if the school administration or board finds out.)
So the thing she loved, she could not get back to it. I figured if she could've maintained stability, she could've at least got her husband and child back, and from that foundation possibly go back into teaching or something else that would've given her meaning. The husband told me he was willing to wait for her and had for over 6 months, but he was in the phase where he had to set up a boundary until she got help on her own.
But the law is what the law is. In my neck of the woods, it defines that I must discharge her if there is no immediate risk. IMHO we gave her the most rock-solid discharge plan we could think of that provided the least restrictive environment (family residence that was extremely large, several family members, good outpatient services, and I was told---no guns). I thought the long-term risk was high, but I thought if she were to do it, it'd be months down the road, and only if there were something immediate that was available.
Unfortuantely I was right.