Really? To enjoy just going home and relaxing and not going out/hanging out all the time?
It's pretty normal IMO. Maybe in undergrad, with young people, my classmates were like this... but after undergrad, most bets are off. I have some coworkers I regularly go to breakfast with after work and text every now and then to say hello, but I don't hang out with them much outside of work. Have a few other friends I usually talk to on the phone once every couple of months and see 2-3 times per year, but that's it. People have lives... most have husbands/wives and children, and they'd rather spend their time there than hanging out with friends. I'd also rather spend time with my husband than other people for the most part. That's why I married him - I genuinely enjoy his company.
I'd say my best friend in the world and I have seen each other in person less than five times in the past two years. I don't particularly find it threatening to our friendship, or that anything is wrong with us as people, that we just don't have time to go see each other. Just talked to her for two hours on the phone last week. We do our catching up in spurts.
A lot of people going to med school are adults, not those torn halfway between adults and teenagers kids from undergrad.
