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You don't think it's possible for an overweight person to be attractive?
Nah. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though....
You don't think it's possible for an overweight person to be attractive?
To your first question, yes if she was big enough that I would consider her "chubby" she would not be attractive to me.. And a different era/ culture is irrelevant to the discussion. We are talking about 21st century U.S. here. Obviously there are exceptions where different people have different tastes, but for the vast majority of people overweight = less attractive. This isn't anything new..
I'm ugly as sin and I got in.
First of all, it was a joke re every med school's holistic admissions selection. And since jokes are always funnier when you explain them...You don't think it's possible for an overweight person to be attractive?
Nah. Beauty is in the eye of thebeholderthough....
Alternatively, I pursued a male gigolo in Miami, and needed medicineAlternatively, I pursued being a male gigolo in Miami because I couldn't cut it in Medicine!
Absolutely. Otherwise, an overweight physician will have to enjoy telling their patients "Do as I say, not as I do" considering most of what they advise their patients to do, they cannot do themselves.
And I'd choose the the one with better scores and stats. And if they were the same, I'd let them decide for themselves, as long as the overweight one isn't going to perform surgery on me with sausage fingers.If there were two physicians in the world, one of which was fairly overweight and the other one which was healthy, which should you choose?
I consider myself to be fairly handsome. I'd rate myself a 8/10. Will a male modeling career increase my chances at med school?
And I'd choose the the one with better scores and stats. And if they were the same, I'd let them decide for themselves, as long as the overweight one isn't going to perform surgery on me with sausage fingers.
When I'm a doctor, I'm going to beat my obese patients with a stick every time they eat. That way they develop a conditioned fear of food.The answer is to pick the overweight one because he is the doctor of the healthy doctor, meaning he is giving good treatment, advice, etc. The healthy doctor is the doctor of the overweight one and isn't keeping the overweight one in good shape.
Absolutely. Otherwise, an overweight physician will have to enjoy telling their patients "Do as I say, not as I do" considering most of what they advise their patients to do, they cannot do themselves.
I don't think altruism or selfless righteousness even exists.
Why don't you address the rest of that paragraph and have a real discussion instead of dogmatically dismissing it.
It's not a personal thing, it's a human characteristic. It says as much about me as it does you
I'm sorry... you want me to address the fact that you don't think altruism exists? That's on you, buddy. If you don't think humans are ever actually altruistic, then all that says is that you are not altruistic. Don't tell the adcoms.
There are plenty of overweight med students and residents.....there is some implicit bias, but still plenty of overweight med students and residents. They ain't no unicorn either. You can search resident rosters for them. I would feel like an @ss if I started posting pictures of large residents (who may even be on this site) to prove something that you could easily see for yourselfI've never seen an overweight resident, medical student, or fellow. I'm sure they exist but in the form of a unicorn with love handles. Once a doctor gets out on his/her own they can get as overweight as they like and not get kicked out of their practice for it. There are plenty of swole belly MDs. Doesn't mean the patients think nothing of it. The fact of the matter is implicit bias does exist despite any amount of feigned altruism or righteousness. It's a characteristic of our brains to find patterns and make associations.
I don't think altruism or selfless righteousness even exists. We wouldn't do anything if we got no result from it. Otherwise we would have no reason to continue or cease a behavior. It could be that we want that warm feeling more than we wanted our money that we gave to charity, or any number of examples.
So yeah, we're flawed and superficial things impact us based on our own instinctual reasoning. Anyone that says it would not affect their decision making at all needs to take some psych and neuroscience classes.
Fair or not, that's the breaks.
Again thank you for circumventing any real discussion.
lol it was a joke...sorry if it wasn't clearThis is probably the most flawed reasoning I have ever seen. A physician has complete influence over his patient's condition and absolutely no responsibility of his own condition - according to your logic.
Humans are never disinterested in their own fate. Why would doctors kill themselves if they were willing to selflessly make sacrifices without consequence? Doesn't mean you can't make sacrifices to help others and enjoy doing so.
No that's not true altruism IMO. Why? Because humans always have reasons for doing or not doing things. These reasons need not be overt but they are there subconsciously or not. Altruism involves a disregard for the self which I opine is not entirely possible.
Back on track: I think younger adcoms are more swayed by looks, esp those of the opposite sex. To older people (most of the time adcoms fit this category), I feel like younger people start looking more or less the same. Weird theory but look at it from this perspective. I remember back in 1st grade people looked really different. Even if you were like a year older, I could immediately tell the difference. Now when I look at first graders, my mind doesnt have the tools to really differentiate that well anymore (much less if they're attractive or not). heck if you put a first grader next to a second grader, I would definitely have trouble telling who's older without a very close look.
No that's not true altruism IMO. Why? Because humans always have reasons for doing or not doing things. These reasons need not be overt but they are there subconsciously or not. Altruism involves a disregard for the self which I opine is not entirely possible.
1 : unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others
2 : behavior by an animal that is not beneficial to or may be harmful to itself but that benefits others of its species
Merriam-Webster defines altruism like this:
So that doesn't mean altruism is disregarding the self, so much as it is a proactive regard for others without worrying about getting something out of it. You don't have to harm yourself to be altruistic. That's silly. If the reason for altruism is that we are designed through genetics and social cues to look out for one another and to feel good about doing it, that's still altruism. It exists. It is a real part of human behavior.
I totally understand and respect what you're saying. It's just a moot point as of now because we are arguing different definitions or interpretations.
Altruism involves a disregard for the self which I opine is not entirely possible.
The definition being an unselfish regard for others.
And I'm arguing that humans can never be totally unselfish, which is why I said true altruism did not exist period. Not that you can't enjoy helping others because you like it.
All legitimate power must be based on the power of the people. This power is also based on knowledge as the two reinforce one another in a circular process; therefore the more we understand about true altruism or a lack thereof allows us to delve deeper into the psyche and gain a true respect for the human condition, empowering us only to our disdain as we cannot imagine to exist in such a planet of mindlessness and omniscient panopticism.
I know.
I know.
The halo effect yielded the attractive person better LORs, as well as, potentially, access to better ECs, the built up confidence to argue for better grades, more successful arguments for better grades, etc.Scientifiy, yes. More attractive people benefit from what is known as the halo effect, in which their follies, mistakes, and shortcomings are viewed in a less negative light because of their attractiveness.
Gotta make it to the interview for that to matter though.
Yeah, but looks can't nail you a 515+ or an A in your orgo test. Yeah, they help. But being naturally intelligent is probably the best advantage one can have, all things considered, looks are really just a small factor in the grand scheme of things.The halo effect yielded the attractive person better LORs, as well as, potentially, access to better ECs, the built up confidence to argue for better grades, more successful arguments for better grades, etc.
The biggest thing people denying the influence of looks seem to be doing is ascribing an all-or-nothingness to it. Yes, on interview day professionalism has bigger role than attractiveness. No, being a dime will not compensate for other giant holes in your app. That wasn't the question. The question is will it influence your chances, to which the studies in other settings suggest YES. Without a doubt indirectly, and, to a much smaller degree, it continues to exert some influence on interview day itself.
Being a hard worker is probably even more important, but that's still beside the point.Yeah, but looks can't nail you a 515+ or an A in your orgo test. Yeah, they help. But being naturally intelligent is probably the best advantage one can have, all things considered, looks are really just a small factor in the grand scheme of things.
I mean, it's just kind of a stupid thing to ask. Does it help? Sure. But so does having a million dollars in the bank, or well connected parents, or a million other things.Being a hard worker is probably even more important, but that's still beside the point.