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I wanna hear your guys' opinions about my current situation. I have delt with pretty bad depression for about 9 years. During my gap year, I had the goal of working these problems out. I have been going to therapy and trying to work on myself. However, I only started making progress recently (before COVID), but am starting school in August.
These personal life issues require time outside of studying to be spent in social settings, particularly to date. I need to be interacting with other young people to create opportunities. My issues are related to not only the significant time commitment med school requires, but also the lockdown. I am worried that there will be limited time in person with classmates and others, making this almost impossible to figure out. Also doesn't help I may have a hard time making friends and a support system (moving far from home), because of online classes/closures in the state.
Of course, the lockdown thing still exists if I defer. But staying home, I have an established life already which could make this easier. I was thinking of using the deferral year to continue working on these issues since I'll have more free time, although the lockdown still may make it hard. Another issue is my parents. I can't tell them the real reason I would want to defer because they don't know about my issues, nor do I wish to let them know. No clue what I'd tell them.
I am pretty high functioning and have dealt with this during highschool/undergrad/tough master's. I can still do well in school and have done so in the past. I just don't want to wait any longer to address this.
These personal life issues require time outside of studying to be spent in social settings, particularly to date. I need to be interacting with other young people to create opportunities. My issues are related to not only the significant time commitment med school requires, but also the lockdown. I am worried that there will be limited time in person with classmates and others, making this almost impossible to figure out. Also doesn't help I may have a hard time making friends and a support system (moving far from home), because of online classes/closures in the state.
Of course, the lockdown thing still exists if I defer. But staying home, I have an established life already which could make this easier. I was thinking of using the deferral year to continue working on these issues since I'll have more free time, although the lockdown still may make it hard. Another issue is my parents. I can't tell them the real reason I would want to defer because they don't know about my issues, nor do I wish to let them know. No clue what I'd tell them.
I am pretty high functioning and have dealt with this during highschool/undergrad/tough master's. I can still do well in school and have done so in the past. I just don't want to wait any longer to address this.