Hi guys, I need your help on a personal issue.
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. He is a visiting physician from South America and according to the contract he signed with his University, he has to go back this September for at least two years to practice there. That means we are going to be in a long distant relationship for my first two years in med school. Btw, I am starting med school this coming August
I understand that there is nothing else we can do at this point and I am ok with that. My only concern is how hard it will be to maintain an healthy long distant relationship while I am in med school (busy schedule, stress, etc). Our relationship at this point is fantastic and we talk about our future quite often. I wonder if we should get engaged prior to his departure and stay engaged for two years. This, in a sense, gives me an assurance that we are committed and are actually heading somewhere.
Anybody starting medical school while already been in a relationship or has friends that are in the same situation can give me advises? Thanks
Note: I am also a dude
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. He is a visiting physician from South America and according to the contract he signed with his University, he has to go back this September for at least two years to practice there. That means we are going to be in a long distant relationship for my first two years in med school. Btw, I am starting med school this coming August
I understand that there is nothing else we can do at this point and I am ok with that. My only concern is how hard it will be to maintain an healthy long distant relationship while I am in med school (busy schedule, stress, etc). Our relationship at this point is fantastic and we talk about our future quite often. I wonder if we should get engaged prior to his departure and stay engaged for two years. This, in a sense, gives me an assurance that we are committed and are actually heading somewhere.
Anybody starting medical school while already been in a relationship or has friends that are in the same situation can give me advises? Thanks
Note: I am also a dude