Should I Send an LoR where my advisor called me attractive?

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I just received my final LoR and was reading it when I saw my writer called me attractive. She said.....

"There is something about his demeanor that invites others to trust him. Perhaps it is his attractiveness and easy-going nature or his non-judgmental disposition."

I do not need to add this letter. Should I? How bad/weird does this look and does anyone have any experience with this? (I miss moto btw)

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Doesn’t sound like the author was referring to you as “physically attractive.” It shouldn’t be a problem. I think a bigger issue is that you’re reading your letters.
 
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I think this is a great X factor and you need to make sure to send this to every school available.
 
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Doesn’t sound like the author was referring to you as “physically attractive.” It shouldn’t be a problem. I think a bigger issue is that you’re reading your letters.
If OP chose to waive their rights and the writer decided that they would like to send OP a copy of their letter, it's actually perfectly fine.
 
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I think a bigger issue is that you’re reading your letters.
You'd be surprised at the amount of PIs that 'dont have time' and just let people write their own letters lmao. Wonder if AOs can tell.
 
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Doesn’t sound like the author was referring to you as “physically attractive.” It shouldn’t be a problem. I think a bigger issue is that you’re reading your letters.
You’re allowed to read your letters as long as the author gives you permission, which it sounds like occurred here
 
Gonna need pics or I’m assuming you’re lying :naughty:
 
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I don't see the need to add this letter
 
Could be a problem if some of your interviewers have high expectations and are disappointed if you're not all that attractive. 😜
 
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