I've lurked here for a month or two now, but just opened an account. I hope it's okay if I ask a question that seems to get asked a lot. My question is whether you'd go back to med school if you were me?
I'm 41, graduated from UC Berkeley, molecular and cell biology major, did all my pre-med prerequisites back then, 3.9 GPA (both science and overall GPA). I did some research in oncology as an undergrad and even had a small publication. When I graduated, start-ups and the internet in general were taking off, so I ended up working for a well-known Silicon Valley company. I'm still working in the tech/computer industry. I make okay but not great money, no debt, I'm married, my wife is a nurse, no kids, and we don't own a house but just rent. However, I'm somewhat stuck in this career now. It's a good gig, I get along with everyone, but I just don't see myself advancing much further where I am. Not unless I want to go into more of a managerial role, but I'm really not interested in that at all. I'm in good health, I run 2-3x per week, and I hit the gym to lift weights 2-3x per week.
I'm considering going to med school since that's what I originally wanted to do in college. But I know it's been too long so I'd probably have to redo all my pre-med prerequisites. It should be possible for me to work part-time from home so I can focus on finishing my prerequisites while maintaining enough of an income to survive. Or my wife could support us, and she's fine with that, though we might have to downsize our life. If I go full-time or do a post-bacc course, then from what I understand it's about a 2 year commitment, give or take. But if I'm working part-time, it might take me an extra year. Call it 3 years from now. If I get accepted to med school, I'll be around 44 years old.
I'm somewhat familiar with the medical world in general from my wife but also from a couple of relatives who are physicians including a close cousin. My cousin is a hematologist and oncologist now. That's what I'd like to become as well since I've always dreamed of becoming an oncologist since I was a kid. My cousin tells me it's a tough grind to make it through med school, residency, and fellowship. I've heard lots of horror stories from my cousin and others including working ridiculous 80+ hours per week at times, often having to go into the hospital in the middle of the night, dealing with the psychological and emotional strain if not outright abuse that happens from patients, attending physicians, and other staff, and much more. I assume all this is just the tip of the iceberg too and that things are probably even worse when you have to experience them yourself. And my wife is very supportive, but I realize that's easy to say now, and probably much harder when we're living through everything.
Nevertheless, I've still dreamed of becoming an oncologist. However, I'd be around 44 when starting med school, 48 when starting my residency in internal medicine I believe, then 51 when starting my oncology fellowship, then 54 when starting as a new attending oncologist. If I don't make it to oncology, if residency becomes too exhausting for me, then I would be happy working in internal medicine starting at age 51 because my cousin tells me I can still help treat cancer in internal medicine. I'd love to never retire.
All this would presumably put us into considerable debt though. But I'd try to aim for the cheapest med school I can get into.
I'd love to hear your thoughts? Thank you!
I'm 41, graduated from UC Berkeley, molecular and cell biology major, did all my pre-med prerequisites back then, 3.9 GPA (both science and overall GPA). I did some research in oncology as an undergrad and even had a small publication. When I graduated, start-ups and the internet in general were taking off, so I ended up working for a well-known Silicon Valley company. I'm still working in the tech/computer industry. I make okay but not great money, no debt, I'm married, my wife is a nurse, no kids, and we don't own a house but just rent. However, I'm somewhat stuck in this career now. It's a good gig, I get along with everyone, but I just don't see myself advancing much further where I am. Not unless I want to go into more of a managerial role, but I'm really not interested in that at all. I'm in good health, I run 2-3x per week, and I hit the gym to lift weights 2-3x per week.
I'm considering going to med school since that's what I originally wanted to do in college. But I know it's been too long so I'd probably have to redo all my pre-med prerequisites. It should be possible for me to work part-time from home so I can focus on finishing my prerequisites while maintaining enough of an income to survive. Or my wife could support us, and she's fine with that, though we might have to downsize our life. If I go full-time or do a post-bacc course, then from what I understand it's about a 2 year commitment, give or take. But if I'm working part-time, it might take me an extra year. Call it 3 years from now. If I get accepted to med school, I'll be around 44 years old.
I'm somewhat familiar with the medical world in general from my wife but also from a couple of relatives who are physicians including a close cousin. My cousin is a hematologist and oncologist now. That's what I'd like to become as well since I've always dreamed of becoming an oncologist since I was a kid. My cousin tells me it's a tough grind to make it through med school, residency, and fellowship. I've heard lots of horror stories from my cousin and others including working ridiculous 80+ hours per week at times, often having to go into the hospital in the middle of the night, dealing with the psychological and emotional strain if not outright abuse that happens from patients, attending physicians, and other staff, and much more. I assume all this is just the tip of the iceberg too and that things are probably even worse when you have to experience them yourself. And my wife is very supportive, but I realize that's easy to say now, and probably much harder when we're living through everything.
Nevertheless, I've still dreamed of becoming an oncologist. However, I'd be around 44 when starting med school, 48 when starting my residency in internal medicine I believe, then 51 when starting my oncology fellowship, then 54 when starting as a new attending oncologist. If I don't make it to oncology, if residency becomes too exhausting for me, then I would be happy working in internal medicine starting at age 51 because my cousin tells me I can still help treat cancer in internal medicine. I'd love to never retire.
All this would presumably put us into considerable debt though. But I'd try to aim for the cheapest med school I can get into.
I'd love to hear your thoughts? Thank you!