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The single worst mistake and applicant to medical school can make is to turn down there only acceptance.Hello all,
So the cycle is coming to a close and I only ended up on 2 waitlists. I wasn't really informed on exactly when I would hear back from each school about my status, but I was blessed with a call today from one of the schools, the UCFCOM. Unfortunately, I had essentially made my mind up about just taking a gap year, and did not really want to go to the UCFCOM in the first place. Aaaaand here's the problem, everything I have read and what several friends have told me is that turning down a medical school acceptance is a sin that could result in being blackballed from future acceptances. I don't want to go to UCFCOM, but I also plan on re-applying!
Here is my reasoning. I have a 3.87 GPA and 521 MCAT, extensive clinic volunteering with the underserved (with leadership), extra-curricular leadership, 2+ years of research experience (and just joined another lab for the upcoming year), and speak 3 languages. Thus, I felt that going into this cycle I had a decent chance of going to a T50 or even T20 med school. That didn't happen, so I began making arrangements for a gap year, not thinking I would get off any waitlists. After meeting with an admissions officer from my university for nearly an hour, I identified specific areas in my application to work on for the next cycle, most of which had to do with how I explained my activities and personal statement, and not with my actual resume. I feel that I am qualified (not entitled, please don't get me wrong, I just feel I'm up for the rigor and would fit in better) for a top program, where I can achieve the most of my potential and grow as an individual. It simply doesn't sit well with me that I should be obligated to take an acceptance I don't want, considering I have the qualifications for a much better program, and the program I was accepted to is behind the airport of my swampy hometown of Orlando. Also, I know this shouldn't be a deciding factor, but I'd rather not live in Lake Nona for 4 years. I simply cannot see myself being happy there, even after spending my undergraduate years in Gainesville.
Please give me your thoughts. If I'm an entitled you-know-what, tell me. If I'm somewhat justified, let me know if I'm wrong about the blackballing thing, especially considering how much more competitive this year's application cycle was. I know that UF had a 21% increase in applications and 63% of their class was non-traditional! It seems to me that with this in mind no one should be forced to settle. If I can spend a year working on myself and focusing full-time on crafting the best application possible, will I be screwed from the outset by turning down this waitlist acceptance?
I'm going to be blunt, you're not God's gift to Medicine. Take the acceptance and run