Sleeping with a classmate?

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Worth it mix business and pleasure?

  • YES!

    Votes: 240 70.0%

  • Absolutely not!

    Votes: 103 30.0%
  • Total voters
    343
  • Poll closed .
ppfizenm said:
They also proved that a rubber ball filled with oil and drops from an office building window would pop on a women's head instead of seriously injuring her. LA-LA-LA I'M COVERED IN OILLL

Also that a junior mint can stave off post surgical infection
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False, the junior mint is what caused the infection.
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I don't know why this is even a discussion, its really strange. This is the generation of meaningless sexual relationships, almost everyone from my high school class that stayed home instead of going to college has had some meaningless sex with one another at some point, same to a lesser extent for the smaller social circles of college. Not that its right its just the currently socially accepted thing.

Those who says its not professional...who cares. Residents marry residents, med students marry med students, you think these people are waiting for marriage before hooking up, you think people have never just hooked up to satisfy physical desires in a work climate that for years provided no time for personal enjoyment.

If she is on board take her and bang her, bring your A game because people will talk about it (this is fact girls talk about everything more so when they are medically inclined). Honestly the fact that you have to come here to ask advice means that you think it is the wrong thing/you're nervous/not all that into the one night stand conquest thing. All these things are ok, but if your nerves outweigh your desire to get your stick wet (I'm not this vile I just love euphemisms) then don't do it maybe its not the best decision for you right now and that's ok too.

Or to sum it up
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Omniscient said:
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False, the junior mint is what caused the infection.
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That is what they thought until he made a miraculous recovery that couldn't be explained by medical science.
 
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I think we're all missing the undeniable fact that women are incapable of just having a sexual relationship with guys without secretly falling in love.

Just like the undeniable fact that guys are incapable of being friends with a girl without secretly wanting them carnally.
 
ManBroDude said:
I think we're all missing the undeniable fact that women are incapable of just having a sexual relationship with guys without secretly falling in love.

Just like the undeniable fact that guys are incapable of being friends with a girl without secretly wanting them carnally.
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Given your username, I trust this statement.
 
ppfizenm said:
That is what they thought until he made a miraculous recovery that couldn't be explained by medical science.
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It was the purchase of his crappy art that cheered his spirits and healed him, not the jr mint. The jr mint did cause the infection.
 
Omniscient said:
You have heard it here first ladies and gentleman...Wikipedia has spoken. Everyone knows that this is the ultimate source of factual information. Sigh.
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It's Seinfeld, excuse me for not using "The Extremely Accurate Synopsis of Every Television Episode Ever Made: Edition 2".
 
libraryismyhome said:
What happens if you sleep with a girl far away from your school and circle? Like not even law, pharm, dent, nursing, PA, or even pre-prof but sleeping with a pre-trophywife girl with easy majors wanting to marry a doctor? Is this clean and safe without backfire??
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Clean, but that could turn into a needy situation.
If you're looking for someone to take your shoes off when you get home, and to wait by the door than that is probably the way to go.
I'm just looking for a study break and workout when I can't get to the gym.
 
How about undergrads if your school has them?
 
ppfizenm said:
How about undergrads if your school has them?
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Better yet, if your school has a nursing program hook-up with those students. It'll be good practice for when you are picking them off one by one during residency.
 
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It all depends.

If you're a girl wanting to hook up with a guy, by all means do it.

If you're a guy, think CAREFULLY before wading into those waters. You cannot trust women when it comes to these things. The vast majority of women cannot have a casual sexual fling with a guy without getting attached. And the small minority that claim to just wanna "have fun" are not to be trusted. Most of them will flip out and to quote my boy Snoop, get scandalous on ya.

If you hook with some girl and it turns out that she wants more than just a fling and you don't (which by the way happens at least 80% of the time) be prepared for major drama. If you're a M3 that's easier to handle unless she's in your group. If you're an M1 you are screwed. You are stuck with the awkwardness.

And whoever said that you better be good in the sack is 100% right. Within a week of you hooking up EVERY GIRL in your class will know the specifics of your member size and dimensions and your oral sex technique. If you suck in bed you will be laughed at for a loooong time. Trust me.

My advice: be flattered, politely decline and have fun with your loyal friend Rosie Palmer and good ol' xhamster.
 
Eh, do it. Who gives a flip if everyone's gossiping or the girl acts weird about it? She's the one acting weird. Make it clear you don't want anything but sex, be nice to her, and when things get weird, get out.
 
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Never mix business with pleasure whether you are a student, resident, fellow, attending, chair. (It never leads to anything good in the long term. One of you will be hurt. Don't ask such stupid questions!)
 
Moebius said:
Never mix business with pleasure whether you are a student, resident, fellow, attending, chair. (It never leads to anything good in the long term. One of you will be hurt. Don't ask such stupid questions!)
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I'll be attending several of my classmates' weddings this spring. I'll also be attending a wedding between a classmate and an attending. They're all happy, healthy couples. I know a few people who've dated classmates or residents and broke up without any hard feelings or undue stress. I can only think of 4 people who've gotten with classmates with poor long-term results. Relationship/dating/hook-up--->disaster isn't a natural progression, you know. Maybe that's been your experience, but it isn't always (or even usually) the case.
 
I'd say it would be hard for a good portion med students to date anyone if they never dated classmates.
 
A dirty bird ****s in its own nest.... I have seen this turn sour, proceed with caution but I wouldn't
 
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