"It is better to be lucky than good." -Dad.
My parents are solidly middle class, and our family vacations involved driving halfway across the country to see my grandparents and national parks. And I figure I won the birth lottery, so no complaining here. I am very, very lucky in many regards.
Getting close enough to FI that I have enacted my retire-from-"general"-EM plan, and it will probably be this year.
I discovered that I actually do love medicine again... which means I'm probably not going to truly retire, and probably not even FatFIRE, which was sort of the plan. The ironic bit is that in my career shift, I am working far more days than I ever did in EM, but they're SO much easier. Not to mention shorter. Wake up when I wake up. Go in, talk about living, dying, priorities, ice cream, see my 3-12 patients, manage their meds, go home. Do yoga. Run marathons. Plan travel. Europe yearly, and we're heading to Bhutan in 3 weeks. Try to be better about living mindfully and simply. (Which is freaking hard to do in our society.) I now actively practice Stoicism, and that's been a game changer, too.
Husband talks about retiring in 3 years - he stepped back to slightly less than full time this year...if they actually let him... and in the same breath talks about going into business with his brother.
I'm still trying to sort in my head the idea of my "retirement career" - I mean, I have to do *something* with my life, and I really love my hospice patients. But it's a different mindset. Although they keep asking, I don't really see myself going back to full-time anything. (Even though I am technically working full time at this point, the irony of which is not lost on me.) Once you're salary, you get sucked into meetings and administration and other commitments. Made that mistake once, and not doing it again. I really, really love having control of my work and my life.
Student loans have been gone a long time. House (yeah, it's too big and it's on a lake, but it's the best view ever) will be paid off this year, and we don't live extravagantly, with just over 7 figures in retirement accounts, not counting real estate.
Aside from the 4 years of alimony (which was still cheaper than staying in the marriage would have been), I've been diligent about saving, and I don't drink expensive wine. Wine yes. Travel to wine regions? Absolutely. Wineries? Duh. But I still usually drink the cheap stuff. (Ideally, a 3€ Montepulciano that I picked up with some groceries to take back to the AirBNB...) But as noted above, not having to worry about buying groceries is actually a pretty powerful thing. I still clip coupons, though.
I do not, however, drink cheap scotch. A girl's gotta have some standards.