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I seem to have huge issues speaking, and not just in front of crowds. Apparently, I tend to mumble, can't speak with the fluid ease of those business majors at my school, and tend to find myself in situations where I honestly can't think of anything to say! Then I have this other weird habit of trying not to breathe all over people when I talk (because it annoys me when people do it to me), so speaking at a close distance one-on-one is a WHOLE other issue!
Anyway...what can I do? How do I get that organized, sales-person-like logical flow of conversation going?! I know people are going to tell me to just practice more, but it's the getting started part that doesn't seem to be happening. I can put myself in a zillion social situations without feeling awkward, and yet I still can't seem to be an excellent communicator. Help!
EDIT: Hmm, this could probably use some clarification. Like, for example, during book discussions, I am not necessarily afraid of raising my hand and speaking in front of the whole class, but when I do so, I can't seem to say exactly what I want to say, forget my train of thought, and cut off abruptly...things like that. There are writing classes all over the place, but no speaking classes.
Anyway...what can I do? How do I get that organized, sales-person-like logical flow of conversation going?! I know people are going to tell me to just practice more, but it's the getting started part that doesn't seem to be happening. I can put myself in a zillion social situations without feeling awkward, and yet I still can't seem to be an excellent communicator. Help!
EDIT: Hmm, this could probably use some clarification. Like, for example, during book discussions, I am not necessarily afraid of raising my hand and speaking in front of the whole class, but when I do so, I can't seem to say exactly what I want to say, forget my train of thought, and cut off abruptly...things like that. There are writing classes all over the place, but no speaking classes.