Married, not in med school yet, however, I did go to a private college a while back.
When I applied, they wanted EVERY bit of tax information on my wife that they could get. I tried to say that we filed separately, but that did not matter. When they found out that my wife and her family owned their own business, they ate me alive with school loans. I could not get Pell Grants or anything, other than an assload of Perkin?s loans. I received a measly $1,000 scholarship, that I think they even made me pay back!!
Any who.... We almost decided to divorce, not out of problems in the marriage, but to afford school.
Here we are 8 years later, still married, 1 child and another on the way (still broke), and staring, dead on, into the face of med school. All I can say is, YES, your spouse DOES matter (especially if they are worth $$$ actual or just on paper, as in my wife?s case.), it will affect the types of loans you can receive (pell grants or perkin?s sub?d and unsub?d).
I can also say, HEY, I did make it through! It was only a 27k debt, but it is possible to do. Sometimes, it can even benefit you (i.e. your spouse works and helps put you through school.) There are many pro?s and con?s to school and marriage, but the choice is yours! Weigh your options? Hope this helps!