Something is not matching up here if we hold the assumption that a medical school and you have the mutual interest in your success.
1. How did you find out about the disciplinary consequences if you delay? Did you directly tell administration of your plans or did you hear from a friend (and how reliable is their information).
2. You are exaggerating the consequences of delaying. It won't be a huge disadvantage to residencies if you graduate on time and can have CK by Sep/Oct. It'll hurt a bit but there's areas to let them know you're anticipating scores and that you took it on "x" date and you can hand CK scores over at interviews.
3. You're incredibly inconsistent in the tone describing the consequences.
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not graduating on time, having a note on your evaluations saying you delayed, etc.
-I'll have to be put on probation and have a
big note on my evaluations saying I delayed.
-my early rotations are moved back and I have to make up for it during 4th year which brings with it a
huge disadvantage in applying for residencies. But I will be expected to
graduate on time
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If I do well enough on the Step 1 and have no other issues, can a probation be overlooked by residency directors or is it a automatic red flag that will end up with me being unmatched, no matter how well I do? The
probation isn't set in stone but from what I have heard, it is most likely going to happen if I take this route
I believe you're not giving us a complete picture of your situation. Even if the contradiction about graduating was due to assuming you would be late on this Monday but found out Tuesday you would graduate on time, that begs the question of what else you don't know but are putting as a worst case situation in this scenario. Also, another possibility is how honest you're being with the school if they're treating you this way?
In the chance I'm way off and your school is really that foolish to let a failing student sit for the USMLE Step 1 because they're not willing to add one student to the administrative headache of delaying rotations, then see
@bannie22 's posts.