Taking Care of a Kitten in Medical School

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I was wondering if anyone had any experience or advice taking care of a kitten (few months old) in medical school? My friend found him as a stray and we de-flead him and gave him food. I did have a cat previously but did not bring him with me since I wanted to focus on school, but now that I'm near the end of 2nd year, I was considering on taking on this cat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

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I was wondering if anyone had any experience or advice taking care of a kitten (few months old) in medical school? My friend found him as a stray and we de-flead him and gave him food. I did have a cat previously but did not bring him with me since I wanted to focus on school, but now that I'm near the end of 2nd year, I was considering on taking on this cat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Kittens are wild but so much fun. Depending on your living situation, you need to have a space where you can sleep, study undisturbed by your new furry roommate. They are so curious and needy at times and their crazy ninja practicing sessions at midnight will drive you nuts. I think that's the only HARD recommendation I have for you. Other than that they are very low maintenance and so much fun. My kitty got me through medical school (almost)
 
Luckily, cats are usually pretty low maintenance. I have two cats and they just need food, water, and a clean litter box to stay happy. Provide toys that can keep kitty occupied on its own and make time to play everyday. My cats are lap cats so they’d sleep on my lap as i studied or theyre in bed at night.
 
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I have two cats, and they're amazing! So much lower maintenance than dogs. I play with them for a couple minutes every day and they're totally satisfied. Also snuggle them a ton while I study - I really think a purring cat in your lap helps with long study sessions, especially when it's grey and dreary outside.

The midnight sprints around the apartment for a few months were a little rough, but they grow out of that pretty quickly.

Honestly, I'd recommend adopting another kitten too so that they can keep each other company. Cats are more social than most people give them credit for! And having two cats helps socialize them and teaches them appropriate play.
 
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I was wondering if anyone had any experience or advice taking care of a kitten (few months old) in medical school? My friend found him as a stray and we de-flead him and gave him food. I did have a cat previously but did not bring him with me since I wanted to focus on school, but now that I'm near the end of 2nd year, I was considering on taking on this cat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
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Don't forget to spay or neuter.

Yeah, he hasn't been neutered yet so I'd have to take care of that and get all the vaccinations done. From the initial cost estimates, the expenses are going to add up, but it's not a surprise.

Thank you to everyone for the advice! Anyone have tips for moving from place to place with a cat at a young age? I'd probably be moving by the year to a new place.
 
Yeah, he hasn't been neutered yet so I'd have to take care of that and get all the vaccinations done. From the initial cost estimates, the expenses are going to add up, but it's not a surprise.

Thank you to everyone for the advice! Anyone have tips for moving from place to place with a cat at a young age? I'd probably be moving by the year to a new place.
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Yeah, he hasn't been neutered yet so I'd have to take care of that and get all the vaccinations done. From the initial cost estimates, the expenses are going to add up, but it's not a surprise.

Thank you to everyone for the advice! Anyone have tips for moving from place to place with a cat at a young age? I'd probably be moving by the year to a new place.

In my area at least, there are a LOT of cat friendly apartments - definitely more so than dog friendly ones. Have never had any problems. A few places make me pay an up front 50-100 dollar "pet fee" but that's about it.

Also, there are some humane societies that will help pay for neutering if you're not well off and you've adopted a stray.
 
Moving cats at a young age (kittens to be specific) isn't too bad. My girlfriend and I have adopted 6 over the last 3 years, one of which traveled with me on a car ride for 220 miles back home. She whined when she was in the box but after I let her out, she sat in the back seat like Miss Daisy all the way home. We moved earlier this year to our first home and our 3 adult kitties didn't take kindly to the move. One took about a week to 2 weeks to adapt to the new space while the other 2 took almost a month. Our big guy was afraid of the new furnace, ceiling fans and his new environment while the other pretty much hated it all. She lost a quite a bit of weight but eventually put it back on and still seems stressed at times (may be from all of the other cats in the house and she wants to be the only queen of the house). I've read that before taking your feline friend to their new home, find some clothing and blankets that has yours and their scent on it so they can recognize the smell and help with keeping calm. You should sprinkle them throughout your new pad so they can walk around and recognize their scents. You can try lavender candles and scents to help keep them calm; I think they sell things like that at pet stores to help with anxiety and stress. The other 3 we adopted about 2 months ago and believe all 3 are siblings from the same litter (2 are confirmed brothers). Kittens at a young age are little devils that need some attention but once they break away from that stage, they are very low maintenance. As others have stated, apartment living is hit or miss with the fees upfront and having to neuter/spay, declaw (we refused to do this to our bundles of joy) and all of other necessary things to make sure that cat is kosher for apartment life, specifically for that complex. Our 3 adults didn't like the apartment we first lived in because the neighbors were always loud and they're all traumatized from the doorbell (they still don't like doorbells to this day, even the iPhone ringtone!).
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience or advice taking care of a kitten (few months old) in medical school? My friend found him as a stray and we de-flead him and gave him food. I did have a cat previously but did not bring him with me since I wanted to focus on school, but now that I'm near the end of 2nd year, I was considering on taking on this cat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
I adopted kittens at the end of first year and have had 0 issues. Much less time commitment than a dog and they keep me company on long days studying in my apartment.
 
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I got a cat last year during my post-bacc with my med school to help entertain my girlfriend. It's been the best decision we've ever made.
 
Yeah, he hasn't been neutered yet so I'd have to take care of that and get all the vaccinations done. From the initial cost estimates, the expenses are going to add up, but it's not a surprise.

Thank you to everyone for the advice! Anyone have tips for moving from place to place with a cat at a young age? I'd probably be moving by the year to a new place.
@Clarus ... congrats on thinking about the best needs of the kitten - good work! :cat:

Paging our veterinary med friends @Coopah @WildZoo @ziggyandjazzy @johnnaboo for more suggestions about moving a young cat from place-to-place.
 
I'll just comment on the moving part since I could go on and on about kitten/cat care forever.

Moving really shouldn't be a problem, especially if it's short distance (I'm assuming that's what it is, just moving to a different place in the same city? If not I can give more specific advice about the move itself).

If you're making multiple trips I would recommend either moving the kitten first or last, and whichever you decide to do, putting him in a room where you can keep the door closed while you're moving stuff in or out of the house/apartment/whatever.

At the new place, give him his own area with food, water, bed, litterbox, toys, etc to let him acclimate, preferably a room where you can keep the door shut. Spend some time with him in his room if he's up for it...a lot of this kind of depends on the personality of your cat. Some of them just want to be left alone when they're stressed, some want attention.

Gradually let him explore the rest of the place, always leaving that area of his own where he can go to and feel safe if he gets scared. And then once he's comfortable with the whole place you can spread all his stuff out more - ideally food/water and litterbox in separate areas at that point.

That's all I've got off the top of my head.
 
I'll just comment on the moving part since I could go on and on about kitten/cat care forever.

Moving really shouldn't be a problem, especially if it's short distance (I'm assuming that's what it is, just moving to a different place in the same city? If not I can give more specific advice about the move itself).

If you're making multiple trips I would recommend either moving the kitten first or last, and whichever you decide to do, putting him in a room where you can keep the door closed while you're moving stuff in or out of the house/apartment/whatever.

At the new place, give him his own area with food, water, bed, litterbox, toys, etc to let him acclimate, preferably a room where you can keep the door shut. Spend some time with him in his room if he's up for it...a lot of this kind of depends on the personality of your cat. Some of them just want to be left alone when they're stressed, some want attention.

Gradually let him explore the rest of the place, always leaving that area of his own where he can go to and feel safe if he gets scared. And then once he's comfortable with the whole place you can spread all his stuff out more - ideally food/water and litterbox in separate areas at that point.

That's all I've got off the top of my head.
Yes to all of this!

Also, if you’re concerned about your kitty being nervous on the trip or adjusting to a new place, try Feliway. It’s a bit pricey but it’s a calming pheromone that works really well for some cats. I used the spray version on the cat carrier I transported my kitties in on my 10 hour trip to vet school and they slept like babies. There’s also a wall plug in version.
 
Yes to all of this!

Also, if you’re concerned about your kitty being nervous on the trip or adjusting to a new place, try Feliway. It’s a bit pricey but it’s a calming pheromone that works really well for some cats. I used the spray version on the cat carrier I transported my kitties in on my 10 hour trip to vet school and they slept like babies. There’s also a wall plug in version.

Just a pet owner but this works well for my kitties!! (Im just allergic to it..)
 
I'll just comment on the moving part since I could go on and on about kitten/cat care forever.

Moving really shouldn't be a problem, especially if it's short distance (I'm assuming that's what it is, just moving to a different place in the same city? If not I can give more specific advice about the move itself).

If you're making multiple trips I would recommend either moving the kitten first or last, and whichever you decide to do, putting him in a room where you can keep the door closed while you're moving stuff in or out of the house/apartment/whatever.

At the new place, give him his own area with food, water, bed, litterbox, toys, etc to let him acclimate, preferably a room where you can keep the door shut. Spend some time with him in his room if he's up for it...a lot of this kind of depends on the personality of your cat. Some of them just want to be left alone when they're stressed, some want attention.

Gradually let him explore the rest of the place, always leaving that area of his own where he can go to and feel safe if he gets scared. And then once he's comfortable with the whole place you can spread all his stuff out more - ideally food/water and litterbox in separate areas at that point.

That's all I've got off the top of my head.
Second everything she said. Also, make sure that first room has a litter box in it. For instance, if you move the kitten last and decide the bedroom is a good place, make sure the litter box isn't in the adjacent bathroom. Allow them spots to hide and be comfortable. Don't worry if they don't want to explore right away.
 
I feel awful because I really wanted to keep him but I feel like I won't be able to handle this cat and study. He's really chill but just the way I study at home & how my study schedule is kind of prevents me from fully devoting my time and attention to him. (Just want to make sure he grows up well since the first year is critical to social & physical development!) I'm sure if I wasn't in medical school, it be much easier (along with someone to help me take care of him) but of course school is first and this time is critical for me too.

Luckily a friend of mine who is also in school will be able to take care of him. She's had cats before and has a significant other as well. She on top of her stuff so I'm sure she'd be able to handle him (way more experience than myself). At least I'll be able to see him from time to time! (Sounds like I'm going through a divorce... oh things go so fast these days haha).

Thank you to everyone for the help and advice. I'll keep it mind for a future kitty! 🙂:cat:
 
I feel awful because I really wanted to keep him but I feel like I won't be able to handle this cat and study. He's really chill but just the way I study at home & how my study schedule is kind of prevents me from fully devoting my time and attention to him. (Just want to make sure he grows up well since the first year is critical to social & physical development!) I'm sure if I wasn't in medical school, it be much easier (along with someone to help me take care of him) but of course school is first and this time is critical for me too.

Luckily a friend of mine who is also in school will be able to take care of him. She's had cats before and has a significant other as well. She on top of her stuff so I'm sure she'd be able to handle him (way more experience than myself). At least I'll be able to see him from time to time! (Sounds like I'm going through a divorce... oh things go so fast these days haha).

Thank you to everyone for the help and advice. I'll keep it mind for a future kitty! 🙂:cat:
@Clarus ... if it's any consolation, I waited until I was prepared (e.g., personally and financially) to care for a cat before I adopted a cat, and brought the cat home with me for the rest of the cat's life. I wanted a cat soooooo much .... I really did ... but I was willing to wait for a variety of reasons.

FWIW ... some of my colleagues and residents volunteer for a local pet adoption group. Ditto for some MSs.

It (i.e., volunteering with pets) doesn't interfere with their academics or professional duties - and they love getting their "one-on-one cat fix" based on their own time and availability. In other words, they can play with, love, and fuss over the kittens and cats as often as they want, without the responsibilities associated with full-time pet ownership. They LOVE it ... and so do the kittens and cats. It's a win-win situation for everyone. Just something to consider in the future, that's all.

TL-DR ... a shout-out to you for reaching a decision that felt best to you at this time in your life as an MS1. I wish you the very best of success in medical school! 🙂
 
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@Clarus ... if it's any consolation, I waited until I was prepared (e.g., personally and financially) to care for a cat before I adopted a cat, and brought the cat home with me for the rest of the cat's life. I wanted a cat soooooo much .... I really did ... but I was willing to wait for a variety of reasons.

FWIW ... some of my colleagues and residents volunteer for a local pet adoption group. Ditto for some MSs.

It (i.e., volunteering with pets) doesn't interfere with their academics or professional duties - and they love getting their "one-on-one cat fix" based on their own time and availability. In other words, they can play with, love, and fuss over the kittens and cats as often as they want, without the responsibilities associated with full-time pet ownership. They LOVE it ... and so do the kittens and cats. It's a win-win situation for everyone. Just something to consider in the future, that's all.

TL-DR ... a shout-out to you for reaching a decision that felt best to you at this time in your life as an MS1. I wish you the very best of success in medical school! 🙂

Thank you for this and I appreciate that. I legit cried 3 times so hard... it was tough doing this but I know it's the best thing for everyone in this scenario. Maybe I'll get to have him back once MS2 is over and start to study for step but we'll see how things go. At least I know he's in good hands and I can really focus on the main reason why I'm here in medical school, to take names and kick ass. 😎
 
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Kudos for deciding what is doable for you and what’s best for the cat. I think like too many med students/young adults adopt pets (typically dogs) they can’t fully care for. Dogs typically love their owners unconditionally, and I think most students who adopt a dog want that love and attention they give but rarely have the time/resources to give the dog that same love and attention in return.

I love dogs, and hope to adopt another one someday (cats are great too but the wife is super allergic). But pets are a big commitment and responsibility.

Totally different ballgame than babies. If I had a nickel for everyone who said their pet was “as much work as a baby,” or they were preparing for being parents by starting with a pet... not even close!
 
Kudos for deciding what is doable for you and what’s best for the cat. I think like too many med students/young adults adopt pets (typically dogs) they can’t fully care for. Dogs typically love their owners unconditionally, and I think most students who adopt a dog want that love and attention they give but rarely have the time/resources to give the dog that same love and attention in return.

I love dogs, and hope to adopt another one someday (cats are great too but the wife is super allergic). But pets are a big commitment and responsibility.

Totally different ballgame than babies. If I had a nickel for everyone who said their pet was “as much work as a baby,” or they were preparing for being parents by starting with a pet... not even close!
I hope to continue to have pets instead of babies 🤣
 
Kudos for deciding what is doable for you and what’s best for the cat. I think like too many med students/young adults adopt pets (typically dogs) they can’t fully care for. Dogs typically love their owners unconditionally, and I think most students who adopt a dog want that love and attention they give but rarely have the time/resources to give the dog that same love and attention in return.

I love dogs, and hope to adopt another one someday (cats are great too but the wife is super allergic). But pets are a big commitment and responsibility.

Totally different ballgame than babies. If I had a nickel for everyone who said their pet was “as much work as a baby,” or they were preparing for being parents by starting with a pet... not even close!
Lol. It does seem to be a thing in my generation to get dogs during 20s and early 30s instead of having kids. A weird phenomenon as I think a lot of people buy into the DOGma --ha ha, get it?-- that dogs are better than people. I find it strange though.
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience or advice taking care of a kitten (few months old) in medical school? My friend found him as a stray and we de-flead him and gave him food. I did have a cat previously but did not bring him with me since I wanted to focus on school, but now that I'm near the end of 2nd year, I was considering on taking on this cat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

I adopted 2 kittens we found in a dumpster during 2nd year. They were adorable, and overall a huge positive addition to my experience.

Some advice: when they’re young study from home - you need to be around a good amount both to keep them safe and to allow for proper bonding. And be sure to set aside a 1-2 hundred dollars a year for vet expenses, some years are cheap, some years they have random health expenses.

Pros of cat: super fun, girls will want to come over to your apartment to play with it, endless supply of instagram material, companionship when the STEP 1 scaries come.

Cons of cat: they will wake you up probably every night until they’re 3 years old. They will ruin your couch, rugs, and anything else upholstered that you own. Scooping litter sucks. They don’t understand that knocking things down is bad, so expect to have some glasses/pictures/plates broken every so often.

I’ll leave you with a story:

I was studying at my desk, 2nd monitor hooked up, cup of coffee freshly poured, and a pine candle burning for ambiance. Cat jumps up and rubs against my 2nd monitor, knocking it over. The falling tv frightens the cat, which bolts across the desk. Cat knocks cup of coffee onto my laptop, trips over himself, and runs headlong into the candle. Startled by the fire, the cat does a backflip, knocking over the candle and flinging hot wax all over me, the walls, and the laptop. Cat also dragged his tail through the liquid wax, which lit his tail on fire. Terrified, the cat ran for the bedroom, and hid under the bed with his tail still smoldering - leaving burn marks all across the rug. He also ruined my beloved copy of First Aid in the process. All in all, the 30 second fiasco cost me $500 - to fix my computer, replace the TV, and clean the carpet. It would’ve been close to $1000 if I didn’t have a friend in vet school who could treat the cats burned tail.


All that said, I wouldn’t trade him for the world. The feeling you get when a cat curls up in your lap after a long day is all warm and fuzzy.
 
They will ruin your couch, rugs, and anything else upholstered that you own.
#notallcats
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That story is one of the more impressive series of unfortunate events I've ever heard related to a cat though
 
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