For those of you who have interviewed this year, have you guys sent your interviewers thank you notes? Opinions anyone?
I thought the thread was just about interviewers.
I also agree with this.I feel that people in this world don't receive enough thank-yous for the things that they do...
I did not, for two reasons.
(a) They did like 100-150 interviews over a 3 day period. Can you imagine getting 150 thank you notes pretty much all at the same time?
(b) I couldn't remember everyone's name (man this sounds terrible, but I attribute it to nerves).
I did thank them in person, though, when I shook everybody's hand on my way out of the interview room.
However, if your school is one of the ones that "requires" it, then definitely do it.
(b) I couldn't remember everyone's name (man this sounds terrible, but I attribute it to nerves).
I did thank them in person, though, when I shook everybody's hand on my way out of the interview room.
However, if your school is one of the ones that "requires" it, then definitely do it.
come on, this is ridiculous. I would actually be a bit insulted by thank-you notes if I were on an ad-com. They are suggestive, in a bad way.
I would like to politely disagree with this... I think if you choose not to write a thank you card, that's up to you. But if you do, it doesn't necessarily "patronize" the person you do it for. If they find it offensive, they have a problem. It's simply a nice gesture. And people DO write thank you notes for people who are just doing their jobs...i.e. postal worker during the holidays, school bus drivers, teachers, etc.you might as well go back to the GRE testing center and give the proctor a thank-you note.
Sorry to hear that KSU has a vain and corrupt ad com. Glad I don't have to experience that.Did you read my post below about KSU?
Are you an ad-com? Then don't give opinions as if you know how they feel.
Sorry to hear that KSU has a vain and corrupt ad com. Glad I don't have to experience that.
huh?You are seriously suggesting that an entire vet school admissions committee is vain and corrupt? Interesting attitude towards future collegues.
huh?
it's not an "attitude towards future colleagues", it's an attitude towards alleged unethical and discriminatory admissions procedures by one ad-com, and nothing more.
I don't buy that it's exactly true, since it was anecdotal. But if it was, then yeah of course it'd be vain and corrupt of an ad-com to discriminate against those who didn't send a thank-you letter for whatever reason.
What a joke that would be, for a school to blindly turn down applicants over the lack of some trivial oxford pleasantry.![]()
I never said one person was corrupt, i talked only about the collective admissions committee in question (and of course it's based on unproven statements so the stones i cast are conditional upon the truth of the allegations)Since I doubt anyone makes admissions decisions completly on their own, it doens't make sense to say one person is corrupt if they are ruling people out on a false criteria; the committee had to agree to it.
What is trivial to some are grounds for termination for others. I know an associate vet that lost her job over failure to send out TY notes to new clients (she was given a couple of warnings.) Lots of things are trivial in some folks minds and crucial in others.
I am obviously not an ad com, but I did use whether or not an applicant followed up as part of the criteria for determining internship positions, whether that follow up was an additional call, visit, note, or email. Why? because folks that went the extra step to get the internship generally went the extra step in the internship. I didn't care if the follow up was a thank you or not. Actually, the best ones I received were those that gave more info about some topic we had discussed during the interview. Present behavior is often a good predictor of future behavior.
I'm sorry, and I'm not aiming this specifically at you, but it really irks me when people assume or think somehow that my generation (I'm 21) is unable to be polite, or doesn't have the same "standards" as the generation before us. It really, really bugs me. I do my very very best to be respectful, polite, and mature. For instance, if I could have at all sent a note, I would have. I had no contact information for either of the vets that interviewed me, and since 1 was retired and not employed by OSU, I felt it would be more rude to send a note to one than to not send one at all.I e-mailed my interviewers a thank you note just because I think it is good manners and polite to do so. It's what you would do when you interview for a job, why should school be any different (like someone said before me). But then again I'm older and the age gap can account for the difference in attitude 🙂
Purdue instructed us NOT to thank/contact our interviewers, if I remember right. Or maybe it was Mizzou. I'm pretty sure it was PU.
I didn't send notes to either, and got into Mizzou. Still waiting on PU. 🙂
I'm sorry, and I'm not aiming this specifically at you, but it really irks me when people assume or think somehow that my generation (I'm 21) is unable to be polite, or doesn't have the same "standards" as the generation before us. It really, really bugs me. I do my very very best to be respectful, polite, and mature. For instance, if I could have at all sent a note, I would have. I had no contact information for either of the vets that interviewed me, and since 1 was retired and not employed by OSU, I felt it would be more rude to send a note to one than to not send one at all.
I just wish people would have a little more faith in this generation. Perhaps that's just what a lot of our peers need...
/rant.
It was actually Mizzou that told us explicitly NOT to send thank-you letters.
And we are oddly in similar positions... I was also accepted into Mizzou and just got accepted into PU. I did send my interviewers at PU thank-you letters.
Dang, guys, when did this forum get so hostile?
It's all about their hospitality and kindness during the interview...they could have easily just have been stoic and apathetic (yet doing their jobs of interviewing you competently).
One of the student ambassadors at KSU told a few of us that we should send thank-you cards to our interviewers. A vet she worked with used to be on the adcomm, and he was one of my interviewers, told her that when he was on the adcomm, if an applicant didn't send a thank-you they would just throw out their application. Sound a bit drastic, but that's what she said.
I sent one to my interviewers at KSU, and was rejected. I didn't send one to my interviewers at OSU, and got in. I literally had to rush my cards to Kansas to get it to them before a decision would be made. At Ohio I wouldn't have even had time to get it there, they made their decision so quickly.
^This👍 Squibs, you're so rightI think we all agree that one person on here is way off the mark. I hope that future applicants who might look on this thread don't read that poor advice.
Peace out, I'm on to other threads.
For a competitive vet tech program, I sent a thank you note to one of my interviewers when I declined the acceptance. He said: "Thanks. Usually all I hear are the bitches and moans." Exact words.
Adamant disagreement is not hostility.^This👍 Squibs, you're so right
Great point, SH. It's true. In general, I don't think enough people carry out common courtesy like our human population once did. It's all about MEMEMEME rather than, hey you took time that you didn't have to to be a nice person. Even holding the door for someone is admirable today and it shouldn't be.
What happened to being kind to people? Gosh.....
(Anyone still reading this hostility here? I'm not coming off as angry at this thread but upset and disappointed with the current state of affairs in the human race. For the love of all that is good, STOP BEING SO HOSTILE TO YOUR FELLOW HUMAN BEING. If we can't do that, how are we gonna take care of the rest of the world?) If you decide to send me hate messages, keep 'em coming. Or, own up to your responsibility to someone besides yourself. I try and do just that all the time.
END MINOR RANT
I'm thinking that most people would be too afraid to take what they say online and say it face to face somewhere. Actually... I know so. There is one member who peeved me off, and after talking to people who know them in real life, they are harmless.