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I'm one of those crazy religious types **gasp!** So when I say I have been working my whole life to become a doctor, then I truly mean that I feel God has called me to this lifestyle. I know that's irrational to anyone outside of this particular set of believes, but I must maintain my own convictions. My girlfriend understands this, and through our unselfishness, we decided to let something really special go, knowing that if God is real then He certainly holds the power to make all things just and good in the end.
Now if God doesn't exist then you might be very correct. But I don't think we should open that can of worms here.
I believe that there is truly no such thing as a completely unselfish act. What we do have are choices and even those are sometimes predetermined. I commend you for having the wisdom to set goals and priorities prior to engaging in life-long, life altering relationship; which carries with it a new set of priorities and obligations.
To be the best at anything requires an all-out, blinders on mentality and work ethic; just look at any successful entrepreneur, athelete, artist, etc...I'm sure their roads to success offered little room for compromise.
What we have to remember is that everything has a cost. Whether it's time, money, health, or relationships. Just know that whatever you choose in life, none of it last forever; so cherish and make the most of whatever you have for as long as you can