EPs should save $100K/year at a minimum. We are much more likely to have the career of the average NFL player than that of the superstar. The jobs beats you up and burns you out.
I think it's sometimes easier to find a job that pays $100-200K more and save the difference than it is for someone to learn how to become more frugal if they aren't already. I know of SDG jobs that pay partners in the $400-600K range versus some in academics or other positions making in the $200-300K annual range. Multiple that by 10-20 years.
My net worth hit $1M around four years out of residency at age 32-33 despite $300K education debt that I paid off and a prepartnership track with reduced income during that time. I have a dual income family, but my spouse isn't a physician and makes significantly less. We also pay for child care because there is value in her having her own career even if not financially.
I personally aim to average $200K/year in savings/investments between tax-deferred and post-tax investments. A few years I save more and sometimes less. I’ve spent a decent amount of money remodeling my home, which is a quasi-investment. I won’t necessarily see it all back, but I also spend the vast majority of my time in my home and want my family to enjoy it. I find myself somewhere between the mindsets of
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@BoardingDoc. As time goes by I value my time more than ever. My spending oddly then goes down as I value future time in the pit less and value money in the future more given compounding return with time.
Regarding frugality, during all of those education years taking on debt I also calculated how much something costed plus the interest in tomorrow’s dollars to see if it was still worth buying at that time at an inflated price. I think that way currently when I buy something new. If I instead saved the money and let it grow would I rather have that new thing now, or that plus more in the future given compounded growth with time. Sometimes the answer is yes and sometimes no.
My initial goal was FIRE, but have since also felt a little lifestyle creep. I'm at times burned out on the job, but my s**t tank isn't full and I think I'd like to live a little more luxurious life than I once thought. I agree a little with
@emergentmd. I also realize more and more as I get older that I could die at any moment. Once I transitioned away from FIRE I roughly set new goals of $3M net worth by 40 and $10M net worth by 50. I'm hard pressed to see myself working past 50 in the pit. I can pretty easily see living on $10K/month in retirement, which I know many of you think isn't much. Despite $120K year withdrawal my net worth could grow to $30M+ by age 70 just with simple low fee-index fund investing. I could also see myself living on more, but I don't have to. It is also very important to remember that your expenses go down in retirement. No mortgage, no disability insurance and no child care expenses.
I have FOMO on a better return with RE, but also don't want to take time to dive into it at this point when index funds are so easy. Don't have enough interest to take even that little bit of time away from my kids. Perhaps at some point I'll join you cool kids though when I want more diversification as my net worth grows further.