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A lot of optional, personal choices that reflect heavy spending and decreased saving.Life happens, kids happens, expenses goes up. Yes, its easy to say save 100K on a 400K salary but it really isn't. 400K is 300K take home. 100K retirement and you have 200K left.
Walk out of residency married at 30 yrs old with 300K debt. New Car, New house, etc. Finally pay off 300K debt after3 yrs.
Have 2-3 kids. Wife stays at home, single income. Unless your wife makes over 100K, working is just not worth it putting 2-3 kids in daycare.
Private school, club sports, nice vacations, clothes, bigger home, home repairs, new car, etc....
If your DINK or your wife makes 200K/yr, then yeah saving 100K/yr is a breeze.
Throw in kids and its just not as easy as it seems. 200K is alot and no one should complain but its not like your swimming in luxury.
Texas property tax on a 1M home is like 25K. Utilities/cell/basic living expenses is 15K. Private school for 3 kids another 45K minimum. Club sports 15K.
That leaves 100K for vacation, food, clothes, entertainment, and everything else.
I am not saying anyone needs a 1M home, private school, club sports, etc. But that is just the reality of being a high income doc where your kids/spouse's peers have similar activities. Lifestyle creep is real and inflation lately is ridiculous.
First though, $100K into retirement is saving $100K.
You shouldn’t buy a new car and new house immediately after residency. Work and live like a resident for at least a year. Half of EPs leave their first job out within a year.
My wife makes far less than $100K. It may not make sense financially with kids for the first 5 years prior to school with child care expenses, but makes a perfect sense for many other reasons.
Now the list. I’m a big proponent of public schools. Specifically chose to live somewhere with one of the best public schools in the state. No money going to private schooling. Don’t pay for club sports. There are much cheaper options that are perfectly fine. I do have nice vacations. They are probably a lot cheaper than yours. Many of them are practically free. Buy cheap clothes. Buy a smaller home. Can still be spacious and luxurious. Property taxes in my state are about $4-5K on a $1M home. The State gets their money in either income or property taxes. Apparently don’t retire in Texas.
Don’t keep up with the Joneses. It’s easy to spend money. People are more impressed with those that save instead.
I know you make substantially more than the average EP by getting in on the free-standing bonanza. I'm not telling you not to spend your money as you do given you have a lot more than most, but it's not realistic for the average EP even really those that make $500-600K/year let alone those in the $200-400K range. You can have anything you want, but not everything you want on an average EP salary. Unless of course what you want doesn't take a cent to buy.
"A man is rich in proportion to the number of things which he can afford to let alone." – Henry David Thoreau
“To live contently with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion, to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common -- this is my symphony.” – William Henry Channing