the perfectly normal person?

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Hey, I'm just wondering--is there a such thing as a "perfectly normal" person? Someone who has no symptoms or traits of any psychiatric condition whatsoever? I find it interesting that in trying to characterize patients' symptoms and problems, we often compare them to "normal." But unlike say, in pediatrics, where there's the well child exam, or medicine which has the standard physical, in psych there doesn't really seem to be an equivalent exam where we actually measure things and deem them normal by a set standard. So then, how do we know what IS normal and whether anyone actually qualifies?

I don't mean normal in the sense of just not having dysfunction--obviously, dysfunction is an important part of diagnosing a mental illness, but a lot of the times we start to get a sense that there's a psychiatric problem for reasons having nothing to do with function--for example, bright colored clothing in histrionic personality disorder. Or flight of ideas in mania.

I don't actually think I know of any totally, 100% normal people myself. Everyone I know has some quirks that could register if you gave them a super thorough psychiatric assessment. Or thought content that might seem a little weird from time to time. Whereas I do know some people who are deemed to be in "perfect health," physically. They go beyond being "functional" and actually have no physical problems.

Anyway, is this a sign that my relationships are skewed somehow, or is this just the way it is for most people?
 
Hey, I'm just wondering--is there a such thing as a "perfectly normal" person? Someone who has no symptoms or traits of any psychiatric condition whatsoever? I find it interesting that in trying to characterize patients' symptoms and problems, we often compare them to "normal." But unlike say, in pediatrics, where there's the well child exam, or medicine which has the standard physical, in psych there doesn't really seem to be an equivalent exam where we actually measure things and deem them normal by a set standard. So then, how do we know what IS normal and whether anyone actually qualifies?

Congratulations on discovering psychiatry's shabby secret.
 
Well then, I guess we can just invalidate your opinion on the matter--since everyone knows that it takes a board-certified psychiatrist to be the arbiter of normality! 😀


Just looking out for my Psych friends.. I don't want to take away their means of a livelihood.. 🙂
 
In reconsidering my normality, I have come to the conclusion that I am not normal. Since being not normal is the usual, normal condition, that makes me normal.

perfectly rational position....this coming from another adnormally normal person...:hardy:
 
Come on, don't you guys see how serious this question is?? Really!

I totally feel like a goon sometimes telling patients how they should deal with their problems, when I know of 10 friends and relatives who have problems and behavioral patterns on a similar spectrum as the patient's. Granted, my friends and relatives are not in the hospital for their problems.

I haven't seen any outpatient psychiatry yet. Maybe that will help answer my question. So far all I have to go on are the inpatients I've met, and then the rest of the world. It is kind of bewildering.
 
Your question is kind of like asking whether there is anybody walking around with mean levels of every electrolyte, enzyme, etc.

I bet there are lots of people like that walking around. It would be cool to meet them.

I have a book called "The Average American," which a friend of mine gave me, knowing how interested I am in this subject. It might be time to finally read it. First I would like to know how long the average American procrastinates before reading a book, however.
 
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Come on, don't you guys see how serious this question is?? Really!

I totally feel like a goon sometimes telling patients how they should deal with their problems, when I know of 10 friends and relatives who have problems and behavioral patterns on a similar spectrum as the patient's. Granted, my friends and relatives are not in the hospital for their problems.

I haven't seen any outpatient psychiatry yet. Maybe that will help answer my question. So far all I have to go on are the inpatients I've met, and then the rest of the world. It is kind of bewildering.

I might argue that you not should be doing this in the first place, as this is not what psychotherapy/counseling is anyway.

And I underatand what you are saying about ther "normal person" issue, but I think you are miscontruing the larger picture. You have to think in terms of base rate statistics of a behavior. Remember, many of the criteria for the disorders are not, in and of themselves, abnormal behaviors. It's the intensity, frequncey, duration, and amount of impairment posed by the symptoms that crerates "disorder." This is why we have a a polythetic diagnostic system. That is, too many of those behaviors, in excess of what most people experience, that interfere with functioning. If you take a close look at the DSM, many criteria/symptoms (with the exception of psychotic disorders and a few others) are actually normal (in the statistical sense of the word) psychological experiences that should be expected to be seen in the general population. Some are even adaptable and healthy if done appopriatley. So, in other words, I dont think "normal" is really an issue here. It's adaptability to the enviorment/culture you are living in. I see these as two very differnet issues.
 
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I might argue that you not should be doing this in the first place, as this is not what psychotherapy/counseling is anyway.

I can see your point, but I am heavily supervised by my attending, and also, the way I wrote that sentence about "telling people what they should do about their problems" is not a technical description of my interactions with the patients--it's just my casual spin on what psychotherapy is about in general. This would be opposed to, say, giving patients advice about how to make their problems worse, which we definitely don't do! I'm a med student so I haven't been trained in ANY form of psychotherapy, but I do get to talk to patients, and it does seem that we try to help them find more effective ways to cope with life.

And I underatand what you are saying about ther "normal person" issue, but I think you are miscontruing the larger picture. You have to think in terms of base rate statistics of a behavior. Remember, many of the criteria for the disorders are not, in and of themselves, abnormal behaviors. It's the intensity, frequncey, duration, and amount of impairment posed by the symptoms that crerates "disorder." This is why we have a a polythetic diagnostic system. That is, too many of those behaviors, in excess of what most people experience, that interfere with functioning. If you take a close look at the DSM, many criteria/symptoms (with the exception of psychotic disorders and a few others) are actually normal (in the statistical sense of the word) psychological experiences that should be expected to be seen in the general population. Some are even adaptable and healthy if done appopriatley. So, in other words, I dont think "normal" is really an issue here. It's adaptability to the enviorment/culture you are living in. I see these as two very differnet issues.

What do you mean by normal "in the statistical sense of the word?" Do you mean that if enough people do something, it then becomes normal? I'm not sure I'd agree because there are some unhealthy behaviors that are very very common, but they're still unhealthy. Are they abnormal because of being unhealthy, or normal because they're common? Alcohol abuse comes to mind--in some communities, it's ubiquitous. Also, "functioning" is a subjective term. But I appreciate your point about traits being healthy in some settings and unhealthy in others.

Anyway, I would be curious about this whether the DSM existed or not. It's more a philosophical question than a clinical one.

And if I am correct, the DSM doesn't go much into NORMAL psychology. I wasn't a psych major and I imagine that normal psychology is a very interesting subject itself. What I find strange I guess, is jumping into this world of abnormal psychology without first learning what's normal. This differs from, say, medical illnesses, where we spend the first year of med school basically just studying the normal state of things.

I find that when I make the abnormal/normal comparison with my psych patients, my fund of knowledge about normality comes from my personal life experience, which seems totally unmedical and subjective to me.
 
But you do study what's "normal" during your first two years. There's a "normal mental status exam," mature and adaptive defense mechanisms vs immature or maladaptive, etc.

We spent a really short amount of time on those things at my school. Not enough to get an in depth understanding. Plus, just memorizing the list of abnormal and normal words that you can use to describe a person's MSE results is not the same as truly understanding how they apply and when. That's about all we did as far as the MSE during 1st and 2nd year.

This question came up for me after I saw a consulting attending interview a patient and determine the patient has "Identity Diffusion" and therefore has "Borderline Personality Organization." It was an amazing interview to watch. However it was hard for me to see how anyone could have gone through this particular interview and not get diagnosed with those things. It was such an intense interview that anyone would have broken down and seemed "diffused" if you ask me. Ever since then I've had this question.
 
I can see your point, but I am heavily supervised by my attending, and also, the way I wrote that sentence about "telling people what they should do about their problems" is not a technical description of my interactions with the patients--it's just my casual spin on what psychotherapy is about in general. This would be opposed to, say, giving patients advice about how to make their problems worse, which we definitely don't do! I'm a med student so I haven't been trained in ANY form of psychotherapy, but I do get to talk to patients, and it does seem that we try to help them find more effective ways to cope with life.



What do you mean by normal "in the statistical sense of the word?" Do you mean that if enough people do something, it then becomes normal? I'm not sure I'd agree because there are some unhealthy behaviors that are very very common, but they're still unhealthy. Are they abnormal because of being unhealthy, or normal because they're common? Alcohol abuse comes to mind--in some communities, it's ubiquitous. Also, "functioning" is a subjective term. But I appreciate your point about traits being healthy in some settings and unhealthy in others.

Anyway, I would be curious about this whether the DSM existed or not. It's more a philosophical question than a clinical one.

And if I am correct, the DSM doesn't go much into NORMAL psychology. I wasn't a psych major and I imagine that normal psychology is a very interesting subject itself. What I find strange I guess, is jumping into this world of abnormal psychology without first learning what's normal. This differs from, say, medical illnesses, where we spend the first year of med school basically just studying the normal state of things.

I find that when I make the abnormal/normal comparison with my psych patients, my fund of knowledge about normality comes from my personal life experience, which seems totally unmedical and subjective to me.

Don't worry, I didn't really think that you "told your patients what do" literally. However, psychotherapy is not advice giving either. Some schools of therapy are more directive than others in term of skills training, but I still would not call it advice giving. I think that's really the domain of "life coaches" and fortune tellers. Have you ever seen a Rogerian therapy session? Talk about non-directive, yikes. I agree that I think it would be difficult to psychotherpay appropriately without training in psychology, especially theories of personality/behavior and advanced understanding of learning theory. I frequently see the psychiatrists' eyes glaze over when I start talking about Skinner, Tollman, Hullian drive theories, reinforcement contingencies, etc.....:laugh: But, knowledge of all these principles comes in handy when conceptualizing a treatment plan and hypothesizing what methods will accomplish the desired behavior change in a patient. Psychotherapy is really built upon two things: theories of personality and learning theory. You have to understand it and you haver to understand the principles that drive (and hinder) behavior change. In other words, I think one has to understand the theories that underly normal personalty, before you can understand pathological personality/behavior. Using yourself as a gauge for normality is a dangerous logical fallacy in this business. Meehl referred to this as the "Uncle George's Pancakes" fallacy. It can easily lead to overpathologizing or underpatholgizing of behavior. And if you use this methods its difficult not to impose your morals onto a patient (either explicitly or implicitly). Meehl (1973). Why I do not Attend Psychiatric Case Conferences is an absolute riot to read. I have the PDF if you're interested. I would encourage you not to worry so much about what you think is normal, but instead, what is adaptable behavior, given the patients desires, goals, environment, culture, morals, limitations, etc. I like to think of our profession as purveyors of adaptable functioning, not necessarily "normality."

Second, yes, I did mean if enough people do it, it is considered normal, in some cases anyway. This is the psychometric definition of normal. Yours is more of a medical model definition, and probably more salient to the work you are used to. However, the psychometric definition is widely used in psychiatry as well. For example, psychiatry does not consider a belief in god a delusion, because it is a social sanctioned belief, and the majority of people have a belief in a hight power. Moreover, in considering the diagnosis of MDE after the death of a spouse, grief reaction needs to be taken into account. This is because it is "normal" for most people to experience many of the criteria of MDE after the death of a spouse. In other words, research has demonstrated that most people do indeed have this reaction, so it is deemed "normal." It really is the intensity and timeline of the disturbance that that creates the conversion to MDE. I agree that the DSM does not delve into much normal psychology. The point was alot of criteria for disorders are aspects of normal behavior, because they happen to all of us. Feeling sad for a while is just a normal part of existing. You would be abnormal if this never happened to you frankly. What creates "depression" in the clinical sense is the combination of sadness with several other symptoms that last for weekends on end and impairs functioning.
 
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I think life is full of challenges, and its about overcoming them. After that happens, things get real peaceful, but sooner or later another challenge shows up.

Anyone getting thrown a challenge will show some signs of a defense mechanism--because this is our reaction to the new stressors. Some of these defense mechanisms coming out will appear to be dysfunctional sx.

However, if life doesn't present with a new challenge, you're going to go into a state of stagnation.

For us to grow, we need to get tossed new challenges, and when these challenges arise, we're going to occasionally go into disequilibrium & perhaps do something we're not proud of.

(BTW--happened to me today).
 
It could be. It depends on the type of psychotherapy. Not all is psychodynamic.

Well I'm not aware of any mainstream schools of psychotherpay that do this. Dr. Phil therapy doesn't count....:laugh: CBT is one of the most directive, but I certainly don't tell my clients what they need to be doing with their lives during a session.

My clients tell me what they want from therapy and then I help them build new skill sets or facilitate behavior change to accomplish this. However, in the case where a certain behavior will interfere with what we are trying to do (e.g., drinking), I will explain to patients that we can not do "blank, until they we take care of "blank." But I do not tell my patients that they should leave their jobs, start talking to their mothers again, go back to school, etc.
 
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