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hey guys im in need of some serious anonymous advice from some people who can relate.
here is my deal:
i was accepted to med school back in the fall and, until of late, had pretty much made up my mind that i was ready and pumped to get started. however, lately i have been having some second thoughts about my readiness to embark on my medical career. here are the reasons for my trepidaton:
1)i currently work in a research lab that i like and enjoy, at least a majority of time, the pay is decent enough and good insurance and i like where i live...i am working on a project that i started, alongside a postdoc, from the beginning. we have been working on the project for about 6 months and there have been a lot of setbacks and frustrations. after tons of tweeking, we are at the point where the project will really start to pick-up, leading to numerous publications , and be a lot of fun to work on for another year...or we are heading down a road of continual setbacks providing even more frustrations and would really suck...
2)i went to the dermatologist today and he wants me to try accutane to treat my acne, which after pretty much disappearing in college has now decided to flare up again which really sucks and has delivered a good, strong stomach punch to my self-confidence. since you have to be on accutane for like five months and have monthly blood samples taken and blah blah i wouldn't be able to begin until i am settled in my new city where i will be attending med school. i have never been on accutane and am a little worried about having to adjust to accutane, medschool, and a new environment all on my shaken confidence
3)i was also planning on getting lasik this summer before med school but my derm says that accutane would/could complicate the surgery(healing process) and to not get lasik within at least three months of being on the drug
4)my parents are getting divorced (dad left mom so completely one-sided) and my mom has been really depressed and ive had to be her support which has, in turn, taken its toll on my own mood. ive never been really depressed in my life but this has definitely proven to be dificult to deal with
5)worries about ridiculus amount of debt i will be taking on (50K+/year) and all the other generic stresses of medical school (these feelings will undoubtedly not change over the course of another year but they are confounding factors right now).
part of me is really excited about med school and the future and really wants to go ahead and get started, but another part of me thinks that another year of research and getting myself together may be in order...anyone have any thoughts, suggestions, similar experiences, advice, insights whatever...
thanks and sorry for the lengthy post,
RD
here is my deal:
i was accepted to med school back in the fall and, until of late, had pretty much made up my mind that i was ready and pumped to get started. however, lately i have been having some second thoughts about my readiness to embark on my medical career. here are the reasons for my trepidaton:
1)i currently work in a research lab that i like and enjoy, at least a majority of time, the pay is decent enough and good insurance and i like where i live...i am working on a project that i started, alongside a postdoc, from the beginning. we have been working on the project for about 6 months and there have been a lot of setbacks and frustrations. after tons of tweeking, we are at the point where the project will really start to pick-up, leading to numerous publications , and be a lot of fun to work on for another year...or we are heading down a road of continual setbacks providing even more frustrations and would really suck...
2)i went to the dermatologist today and he wants me to try accutane to treat my acne, which after pretty much disappearing in college has now decided to flare up again which really sucks and has delivered a good, strong stomach punch to my self-confidence. since you have to be on accutane for like five months and have monthly blood samples taken and blah blah i wouldn't be able to begin until i am settled in my new city where i will be attending med school. i have never been on accutane and am a little worried about having to adjust to accutane, medschool, and a new environment all on my shaken confidence
3)i was also planning on getting lasik this summer before med school but my derm says that accutane would/could complicate the surgery(healing process) and to not get lasik within at least three months of being on the drug
4)my parents are getting divorced (dad left mom so completely one-sided) and my mom has been really depressed and ive had to be her support which has, in turn, taken its toll on my own mood. ive never been really depressed in my life but this has definitely proven to be dificult to deal with
5)worries about ridiculus amount of debt i will be taking on (50K+/year) and all the other generic stresses of medical school (these feelings will undoubtedly not change over the course of another year but they are confounding factors right now).
part of me is really excited about med school and the future and really wants to go ahead and get started, but another part of me thinks that another year of research and getting myself together may be in order...anyone have any thoughts, suggestions, similar experiences, advice, insights whatever...
thanks and sorry for the lengthy post,
RD