Hi everyone,
I have been pondering on my future options and have been having trouble figuring things out with my girlfriend. (Due to circumstances we do not want to spend any time apart.) I will begin med school 2016 and she will be coming with me. She will then apply to schools within 30 min during my 2nd year putting us 2 years apart in our cycles.
She does not like the city in which my school resides in and would like to leave it asap. So she doesn't want to do her residency there or else we would be there 10 years. So now I am left with a few options:
1. defer 1 year + 1 year fellowship at my school to graduate 6 years from now (she applies for 2018 spots and we graduate at the same time and do couple matching residency)
2. I take 2 years off of med school graduation and apply couple matching with her
3. Go to residency and apply for another program with her 2 years from now.
Option 1 is risky because the fellowship program is pretty competitive.
Option 2 is risky because I remember reading somewhere that match rates drop significantly for people who apply with gap years? (I could be wrong)
Option 3 is risky because I don't know if this is even possible or how it would be looked upon. (I assume there are people who switch specialties. Not sure I would want to switch but if it is necessary...)
It would be way too selfish of me to ask her to wait 4 years to apply especially when she's already sacrificing 2 years. Also if she doesnt get in her first attempt (she has decent stats and EC's) she could apply again and defer acceptance 1 year. Then I could apply to all the programs near her school for residency and there would be no problem.
Without having entered medical school yet I cannot think of any other options out there that do not include separation of us.
Could I get some input or some advice in the realities of these options? (thinking and theorizing is easy)
Thanks in advance!
I have been pondering on my future options and have been having trouble figuring things out with my girlfriend. (Due to circumstances we do not want to spend any time apart.) I will begin med school 2016 and she will be coming with me. She will then apply to schools within 30 min during my 2nd year putting us 2 years apart in our cycles.
She does not like the city in which my school resides in and would like to leave it asap. So she doesn't want to do her residency there or else we would be there 10 years. So now I am left with a few options:
1. defer 1 year + 1 year fellowship at my school to graduate 6 years from now (she applies for 2018 spots and we graduate at the same time and do couple matching residency)
2. I take 2 years off of med school graduation and apply couple matching with her
3. Go to residency and apply for another program with her 2 years from now.
Option 1 is risky because the fellowship program is pretty competitive.
Option 2 is risky because I remember reading somewhere that match rates drop significantly for people who apply with gap years? (I could be wrong)
Option 3 is risky because I don't know if this is even possible or how it would be looked upon. (I assume there are people who switch specialties. Not sure I would want to switch but if it is necessary...)
It would be way too selfish of me to ask her to wait 4 years to apply especially when she's already sacrificing 2 years. Also if she doesnt get in her first attempt (she has decent stats and EC's) she could apply again and defer acceptance 1 year. Then I could apply to all the programs near her school for residency and there would be no problem.
Without having entered medical school yet I cannot think of any other options out there that do not include separation of us.
Could I get some input or some advice in the realities of these options? (thinking and theorizing is easy)
Thanks in advance!