your words ring true to me, i think you will be very happy. wherever you do go, enjoy the next 4 years, because your application year will probably suck, (min did until last week).
just to keep on topic, i have friends at NYU and maryland, I would say NYU ppl are happier. also i have met far more NYU people at med school interviews than maryland. past that, look to the real experts (current students/alumni)