you gave great advice and i agree with you. but i guess i can only talk for myself...my gpa/mcat are set...i cant change that...i cant only "strive" for the best, because they are set...and believe you me, i have done that for the past 3 years and believe you me, it has worked...i have not sold myself short, and i did not aim for any goals other than best...but i am not stupid...and call it stereotype threat or whatever, but in the back of my head ive always known that my numbers are much statistically higher than the "average' numbers listed on the AAMC website and tht i would benefit from that. i mean, duh, arent we supposed to be critical thinkers? but yo, trust, i never once told myself, i shouldnt bust my a** for a test because i can afford 1 B, noway dude, still strove for the best, and i would think, or would hope, most URMs would think this same way...with that said, i still would like to know where people with my similar stats are getting in, where they are applying, and the likes...because despite what you and nbjmd suggest, it has been my experience that there are not many...i go to a huge public school and i know many, many, urms, and most of them hover around the averages listed by AAMC (no ****, thats prolly why its the average) i dont know many (well, not to toot my own horn, but actually none) that have the same numbers as I, so its tough, and i feel like im always in limbo...and i have called schools admissions office and asked, but yo, its awkard as hell asking *umm, okay so i know my gpa/mcat scores are at about the average for accepted applicants to your school, but how competive am I as an african american male?* lol, sometimes i feel like using a fake name, cuz i dont want to be associated with asking that type of question. but that is the exact reason why you ask on this ANONYMOUS online forum...who cares what negative comments ppl have to say to, its frickin anonymous...and yes, ive tried PMing ppl, that **** doesnt work either...i just dont understand why it has to be a mystery for us....randomblackmanx got a ** and ** and got accepted to evert single school he applied to, okay, so now am i gonna think *damn, i gotta get a ** and a ** to get into every school* NOO!!!!! but it does help put things in perspective...it does ease the nerves a little bit, to actually know who is getting in where with what....