Oldman is absolutely correct. No one can go after your family to recover loan money in the event of your death. They can, however, go after cosigners obviously. When you enter into the loan contract it is between you and the "bank" and your family has nothing to do with it unless one or more cosigns. People, for some unknown and odd reason have this misconception that, upon a family member's death, other family members are responsible for debt or other obligations. Think of the absurdity of that proposition. The only time family is responsible for a debt NOT guaranteed by them is if it is a debt to a loan shark and the mob wants their money...haha.
As for life insurance, whomever's name it is in, as far as owner/beneficiary, gets the money. Life insurance does NOT become part of a decedent's estate unless it is owned by the decedent or his estate. It is the sole property of the beneficiary regardless of the amount of debt the decedent was in. AND, on top of all that it is NOT taxable as income by the IRS. Therefore, if your spouse has a $1 mil. policy and dies and you are the owner/beneficiary then you take that money tax free AND free of your spouse's debt (student loans or any other debt as well). That's the law folks. NOW, if you put yourself or your estate down as beneficiary then it WILL be used to pay YOUR debt.
So, my question would be whether the school also requires the policy be in YOUR name? Because if not then that whole loan payoff theory goes down the toilet...