I did not intend for it to sound like you won't be a good vet or won't be dedicated to the field. But, believe me, the woman that I spoke of who had a kid shortly out of vet school QUIT VET MEDICINE a YEAR after she graduated to be a stay at home mom. She was quite comfortable with her decision, yet before and during the pregnancy always spoke of how dedicated to the field she was etc. etc. etc. I just don't understand why you would go through all of that torture (yep, staying up late, studying, tears, the anxiety, etc.) to give it up for a kid. Vet medicine is a field that is constantly changing. If you leave the field for a few years odds are high that you will be very behind your peers. (And yes, she does intend to come back, and yep, there's a vet shortage, she'll get a job - but - in all honesty she will likely be more than a few steps behind the new grads when she re-enters the field).
Not at all saying everyone does or even that most people do.
I'm also not saying this is you, but truth of the matter is that it could be you. It is something to consider. Get the point?
But I also want to add that when I go into practice I want to have the exact same treatment as my partners in practice do even if I don't have kids. Late nights? Don't stick the girl who doesn't have kids with them just because she doesn't have kids. Discrimination much? Holidays? Who says I don't want Christmas off every now and again too? (Don't say this doesn't happen, it does, I have seen favoritism given to those who have families, because clearly those who don't have kids have the time to be there).
Being able to have kids and balance a career is becoming more and more available and likely in many practices. But it is not in other practices.
I think wanting to have kids is a great thing. (Definitely not for me). But I do feel it is very, very difficult and will make your career in veterinary medicine more challenging. I am NOT attacking you, just stating what I have seen in practice and at school.
I think it would be pretty crappy of adcoms to say you can't go to vet school unless you're sterilized.
At the same point, I also know of veterinarians who would much rather hire men (or older women more established in the career) because they do not want to have a new grad or young woman quit on them because of a baby.
Of course, I come from a rural background where vets are scarce and they can't really afford to give you lots of maternity leave and so on. There are not enough vets to cover for you when you are gone. We did everything we could to make this new mother feel good about staying at the clinic and being a mom (including part time work, appointments only, etc.) and she just couldn't handle it.
It's interesting, but perhaps not surprising that I've been attacked throughout my life for not supporting folks who want to have children. And I am sorry that people feel that way about my opinion. It is something I feel that you can do with a career in vet medicine, but I don't think it's something you should do and think that it is not going to change you, your priorities, or where you will wind up. (Again, it might not...but you have to accept that it MIGHT!)
Ok...done for now.