i understand! my boyfriend was willing to come with me, but in my case, i loved columbia, too, and nyc is too much for me to turn down. my brother is there, all of my friends are there - so it all worked out and i'm not really giving anything up at all. yeah - i think i'm one of the few very lucky premeds.
congrats both on your admission to emory AND on getting yourself such an awesome boyfriend! i'm sure a letter of intent will go pretty far, and good luck on getting to your dream school!!
i'm not sure exactly where your boyfriend will be, but i've done the distance thing for quite some time - up to 8 months at one point while he was in cali and i was on the east coast, with only 1 visit inbetween! what i can tell you is that, while it's hard, it'll be easier simply because you'll be so busy, and if you decide you can make it work, it's fully possible. will he also be in school? any chance he may be in the midwest at any point in the next few years?