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He prefers a "fine Chianti" as a post-interview thank you. Maybe some fava beans
He prefers a "fine Chianti" as a post-interview thank you. Maybe some fava beans
Interviewing at FIU:
"You don't seem like the doctor type to me. I don't think you have enough compassion. Prove to me that you're compassionate."
Tricky ones I've been asked:
Tell me about an unpopular decision you've made.
What negative aspects of yourself come out when you're tired?
Tricky ones that I ask when I interview(no specifics):
Ask about motivations for certain decisions, like service trips and community service. I like to dig deep into motivations to figure out the type of person they are.
Yikes. First one is easy. Second one is easy but definitely unflattering. I get impatient when I'm tired.
That's only tricky if your motivations are selfish or malevolent.
What did you say?
That....concerned me. You okay, Gonnif.sounds like my last 5 years of therapy
First I said nothing, but then they pressed so I said the way she drives. Seemed like a pretty safe answer. I still don't get the point of the question.
Now that I have the decision from this place I can tell my story.
Met my open file one on one interviewer. An attending. Small woman but fierce. Medals and military pictures on the wall of her office. Her face intense and never looking away from me. We exchange pleasantries and then she went right in for the kill. That's when I was asked the most basic question, and the one I knew I'd be asked. Not so much tricky question, but the response that came next literally floored me
"Why do you want to be a doctor?" I answer. She listens, without interrupting, still looking at me intensely. I finish. She sighs, saying:
"That's not how I want you to answer that question."
I swear to god SDN I thought I was going to cry. She then proceeded to LECTURE me as to how I should give my answers.
"You took too long to answer, cut out all of the exposition. I don't want to hear your 5min long life story. Imagine if you were being interviewed by Sanjay Gupta-- no one watching the TV wants to hear about your lfie story, you would just cut to the chase and say something like 'I knew I wanted to help people.' "
And that's not all. She told me to repeat my answer to the same question after giving me her lecture.
She did this for every single question from then on. When I talked about a time I helped kids in grade school in some program she said afterwards, don't say kids, say "at risk inner city youth."
And I had enough. I said politely "I don't know that they were at risk or inner city."
"Well, you have to learn to sell yourself by embellishing," she replied, claiming that this feedback would help me for any potential future interviews at any nearby xyz colleges.
She parted with me by saying god works in mysterious ways and that she hopes I choose to go to their school if I get accepted.
I did but there's no way in hell Im going there.
. She was just trying to help you.
Maybe she was testing how well you did under pressure and how well you handled criticism, both important when training to become a doctor. Just speculation.Ehh maybe? Maybe from her perspective? From mine, not really. She flustered me because the interview wasn't an interview. It wasn't me giving complete answers, it was her talking over me, literally interrupting me in the middle of my answers and me then listening to her feedback. I hope she does that to everyone, otherwise that seems highly suspect if only half of the interviewees get on the spot help during their interview and half don't.
And idk, aren't interviews supposed to test you and not to give live feedback, like every single other interview I've ever had, whether for school or a job? but I could be wrong.
Ehh maybe? Maybe from her perspective? From mine, not really. She flustered me because the interview wasn't an interview. It wasn't me giving complete answers, it was her talking over me, literally interrupting me in the middle of my answers and me then listening to her feedback. I hope she does that to everyone, otherwise that seems highly suspect if only half of the interviewees get on the spot help during their interview and half don't.
And idk, aren't interviews supposed to test you and not to give live feedback, like every single other interview I've ever had, whether for school or a job? but I could be wrong.
That was my favorite post to ever hit SDN.