Netter is a must.
I liked having a second atlas for abdomen, pelvis and perineum, and Head and Neck. I used Grant's and I liked it alot as it showed everything Netter did in a more specific 3d view than Netter. Netter is mandatory for a good basic understanding, however, for relationships Grant's has a much better treatment. The nice thing for me was finding a couple of other students with whom I could study Anatomy and talk about stuff. Each of them had a second atlas, one Had a Rohen (a dead body book) and the other a Snell atlas. between the three of us we had 4 different views from which to tie our learning which I found helpful and they did too, though I know plenty of people who did fine with Netter and the Notes only. I also like Baby Moore quite a lot and used that for most of the reading I did though I owned Big Moore too, which I used as a reference.
In conclusion, a dissector and Netter are mandatory. After that try to get a feel for what will help you learn the best, try reading the books in the library to see if they'll help you and get them if they do and you need them.
Good LUCK, remember, you have to look at the pretty pictures a lot, nothing will replace the time spent eyeballing the drawings and the cadaver.
Sweaty Paul