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What can you expect from a med student in a relationship? Is the answer "nothing"? My boyfriend and i have been doing the LDR thing for almost a year now. (together 2.5) i usually am the one to go see him once or twice a month. he's been down twice... once during his winter break and once two weeks ago. he came down two weeks ago at my urging, because i'd just had to travel across country to see a friend in the hospital, and knew that we wouldn't be able to see each other for 2.5 months if he DIDN'T come down. it was right after an exam and he didnt have much work to do. He came down, but not without complaining about the price of the ticket (which i ended up pitching in on) and not without (still) complaining how he couldn't get much work done... fine. but he told me he didn't HAVE much work, otherwise i wouldn't have asked him to come down. not to mention the number of saturday evening i talk to him when he says "man, i just didn't get any work done today!" am i kidding myself to think that an average med student can't make sacrifices like this, or is he telling me he just doesn't feel i'm a priority? I don't expect to be a priority over studying...but he does tons of other stuff (goes out, plays in two soccer leagues, surfs, writes for the school newspaper, etc...) is it asking too much for him to budget his time differently to fit me in without griping about it? I'm thinking of moving up to be closer to him... but his attitude is giving me pause.