Too few premeds understand that at the end of all the schooling and training, medicine is really just a job. A time- and resource-intensive one, yes, unique in many ways, yes, not for everyone, yes, but it really is just a job. You go to work, do the best you can, learn from others, then you go home and live your life with people you like. I worry when an applicant tells me their "goal in life" is to become a doctor (or any other professional for that matter). Your life goals should extend far beyond your career. When we see a premed who has no interests beyond racing to the finish to become a physician, we worry about his future well-being and happiness in a career where having something to do outside of medicine is integral to one's long-term mental health. We want you to commit to the long training path and know what you're getting into, but for the love of everything human, live your life or you'll regret it when you're a hot shot attending out of a hot shot fellowship at 32 with few friends, family, hobbies. Those guys are miserable when they go home