** People with no clinical experience (i.e. bioethics "professors" and...um...pre-meds 😳) telling you what you should think, how you should feel, and what your life is like. 🙄
I'm sorry, but it's a little exasperating to hear pre-meds tell you that they know what med school is like, because their roommate's brother's girlfriend is a med student and has told them stories.
And it's extremely frustrating to hear bioethics professors (who have zero clinical experience) tell you how you "should" react to a drug seeking patient or a difficult patient. Or, worse, making you feel guilty for how you actually did react to a drug seeking patient. Here's a hint: anger and compassion are NOT mutually exclusive.
** Those same bioethics professors and pre-meds insisting that they "truly understand" your concerns, when, in reality, they don't.
** Knowing just enough to get freaked out, but not enough to diagnose yourself/others with any real certainty.
** I kind of wish that people in medicine weren't so diplomatic. Sometimes, you just want a straight, honest answer.
But everyone's so afraid that they'll discourage you from medicine, and unduly influence your decision, that they kind of hedge when they answer your questions about careers and things like that. "Don't worry...it's not that bad...everything will be fine!" seems to be everyone's favorite catch phrase.
While some people don't like surgeons because they're too "blunt," their honesty and short answers are refreshing. 🙂
** The NBME cartel. I mean, really - why are Step 1 and Step 2 exams so expensive? 😕
** Female does NOT = "nurse." 🙄
And no, I didn't go to medical school to "find a doctor to marry," so stop asking.
And no, I will not set your daughter up with a classmate. If she wants to marry a doctor, she can find one herself.
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Don't worry, there are good things about medicine too. But if I described the things that I liked about medicine, I'd have a bunch of third years and fourth years loudly disagreeing with me. 😉