What to do when interviewer goes off on tangent?

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I always feel really awkward when this happens. I maintain eye contact, smile when needed, and occasionally nod or offer agreement. The problem is I just feel weird when this happens. I don't feel this way at all during the 2-way conversation part of interviews, just when it's only the interviewer talking for a long period.

Any advice/people who feel the same?
 
I always feel really awkward when this happens. I maintain eye contact, smile when needed, and occasionally nod or offer agreement. The problem is I just feel weird when this happens. I don't feel this way at all during the 2-way conversation part of interviews, just when it's only the interviewer talking for a long period.

Any advice/people who feel the same?

If the interviewer goes off tangent, then roll with it. If you have an opportunity to bring it back, then do it. But for you, never go off tangent. The interviewer has the upper hand and he can do anything he wants. If he wants to talk about llamas, darn it, he's going to talk about llamas and you're going to listen!!
 
I always feel really awkward when this happens. I maintain eye contact, smile when needed, and occasionally nod or offer agreement. The problem is I just feel weird when this happens. I don't feel this way at all during the 2-way conversation part of interviews, just when it's only the interviewer talking for a long period.

Any advice/people who feel the same?

I go with it. My take on interviews is that they are to get a sense of who I am as a person. I can go on for days on things I have already listed on my application, but they already have that. On the other hand, going along and showing that I know about (/can think through) another topic shows that I have interests outside of what's already on my application. In other words, I feel like it's a good opportunity to show that you are well-rounded.
 
I feel fine when I get to talk. The problem is when the interview is the only one talking for ~5 min, I just FEEL weird. I just wanna shake that feeling, because if I'm feeling weird, the interviewer probably can tell.
 
I feel fine when I get to talk. The problem is when the interview is the only one talking for ~5 min, I just FEEL weird. I just wanna shake that feeling, because if I'm feeling weird, the interviewer probably can tell.

Oh, that's easy to fix it. Practice it. Have someone talk on for 5 mins and train yourself to look normal. Ask for your practice interviewer for advice or anything that you do that might signal something is wrong.
 
I feel fine when I get to talk. The problem is when the interview is the only one talking for ~5 min, I just FEEL weird. I just wanna shake that feeling, because if I'm feeling weird, the interviewer probably can tell.

The trick is to actively be engaged in what they're saying. Maintain eye contact and look interested in what they're saying. If you can add something, go ahead! They might be impressed at how much you know!

If you have no idea what they're saying, try your best to find a connection with that and the interview. I mean, if it went off tangent, you can probably bring it back, right? You don't want them to rate the interview on them talking alone.

If you can't bring it back on topic no matter what, just wait until they stop. Laugh a bit, then they will be smiling/laughing too. As the laughter fades, look around as if dazed and ask "Oh, now where were we?"

Situations like these really test you on how honed your social skills are and how well you can think on your feet.
 
I remember reading somewhere that interviewers tend have a more favorable opinion of the interviewee if the interviewer talks alot. Must have something to do with how self-absorbed people actually are haha.

Anyway, as others have said, just roll with it, and the more excited the interviewer is about whatever he is talking about, the better it is for you.
 
The trick is to actively be engaged in what they're saying. Maintain eye contact and look interested in what they're saying. If you can add something, go ahead! They might be impressed at how much you know!

If you have no idea what they're saying, try your best to find a connection with that and the interview. I mean, if it went off tangent, you can probably bring it back, right? You don't want them to rate the interview on them talking alone.

If you can't bring it back on topic no matter what, just wait until they stop. Laugh a bit, then they will be smiling/laughing too. As the laughter fades, look around as if dazed and ask "Oh, now where were we?"

Situations like these really test you on how honed your social skills are and how well you can think on your feet.

Have you been in any interview? I'm actually just curious, not questioning your actual advice, but your profile says you're a college freshman...
 
Have you been in any interview? I'm actually just curious, not questioning your actual advice, but your profile says you're a college freshman...

Yes, I have. You can be interviewed for internships, part-time jobs, participation in certain non-profit organizations, scholarships for financial aid, leadership positions in clubs/organizations, and even various volunteer positions. The list goes on.

Interviews are not limited to the medical application world. 😉
 
Smile and nod, look interested and make sure you don't cross your arms or use any unwelcoming body language.
 
Yes, I have. You can be interviewed for internships, part-time jobs, participation in certain non-profit organizations, scholarships for financial aid, leadership positions in clubs/organizations, and even various volunteer positions. The list goes on.

Interviews are not limited to the medical application world. 😉

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If you're going to use a meme, at least make sure it's in context. 😴
 
If you're going to use a meme, at least make sure it's in context. 😴

The meme is in context.

Look, I'm perfectly aware of what the general you can be interviewed for, but I'm interested in what YOU have been interviewed for. When I was a freshman in college, I was maybe interviewed for a position for a sales rep at the mall. And not sure all of the same techniques apply for that interview as a medical school interview...
 
If you're going to use a meme, at least make sure it's in context. 😴

I normally would not say anything antagonistic on an online forum, but your post history is pretty ridic. You haven't been through the procedure of taking the MCATs and applying and interviewing, but somehow, you feel that you are knowledgeable enough to post comments like:

"Honestly, if people can get a 35+ while studying during the school year, so can you."

"I highly recommend NOT taking a class during the summer...."

"Your mistake was starting late..."

"Definitely take all advice from premed advisors with a grain of salt. SDN is your best source for information..."

What....?
 
I normally would not say anything antagonistic on an online forum, but your post history is pretty ridic. You haven't been through the procedure of taking the MCATs and applying and interviewing, but somehow, you feel that you are knowledgeable enough to post comments like:

"Honestly, if people can get a 35+ while studying during the school year, so can you."

"I highly recommend NOT taking a class during the summer...."

"Your mistake was starting late..."

"Definitely take all advice from premed advisors with a grain of salt. SDN is your best source for information..."

What....?

You sound mad. Something he said?
 
You sound mad. Something he said?

No. Just some of these advice are actually pretty terrible, like SDN being a better source of info than your med school adviser and that anyone can get a 35. Thought someone should point out he/she has had no real experiences and really should be taken with a pinch of salt.
 
If the interviewer goes off tangent, then roll with it. If you have an opportunity to bring it back, then do it. But for you, never go off tangent. The interviewer has the upper hand and he can do anything he wants. If he wants to talk about llamas, darn it, he's going to talk about llamas and you're going to listen!!

Also it means the interviewer is having a good "chat". >80% of the interview is the feeling the interviewer is left with. Do not rain on the parade of an interviewer
 
I normally would not say anything antagonistic on an online forum, but your post history is pretty ridic. You haven't been through the procedure of taking the MCATs and ap....?
MCATs..... :eyebrow:
 
I normally would not say anything antagonistic on an online forum, but your post history is pretty ridic. You haven't been through the procedure of taking the MCATs and applying and interviewing, but somehow, you feel that you are knowledgeable enough to post comments like:

"Honestly, if people can get a 35+ while studying during the school year, so can you."

"I highly recommend NOT taking a class during the summer...."

"Your mistake was starting late..."

"Definitely take all advice from premed advisors with a grain of salt. SDN is your best source for information..."

What....?

I was kind of wondering the same thing.
 
SDN, Pre-Allo: Where pre-medical students give definitive advice on how to get into medical school. Problem?

And though it is labeled an interview, many of the medical school interviews you deal with turn out to be more conversational than, say being grilled in front of a polished oak desk while a crotchety old man peers down on you from his glasses. So be open-minded and roll with it - you never know what you'll end up talking about. It could be, shockingly.. fun?
 
SDN, Pre-Allo: Where pre-medical students give definitive advice on how to get into medical school. Problem?

And though it is labeled an interview, many of the medical school interviews you deal with turn out to be more conversational than, say being grilled in front of a polished oak desk while a crotchety old man peers down on you from his glasses. So be open-minded and roll with it - you never know what you'll end up talking about. It could be, shockingly.. fun?

I just want to emphasize that this answer is off topic (not trying to insult you or anything, just I'm getting alot of answers along these lines). I am well aware what a med school interview is like, as I have been to 8. I am fine with the conversation part of the interview, I just feel uncomfortable when I don't talk for long periods. I think I might practice with friends on this part like someone suggested.
 
I just want to emphasize that this answer is off topic (not trying to insult you or anything, just I'm getting alot of answers along these lines). I am well aware what a med school interview is like, as I have been to 8. I am fine with the conversation part of the interview, I just feel uncomfortable when I don't talk for long periods. I think I might practice with friends on this part like someone suggested.

I think the important thing to realize is it's ultimately not about your comfort, it's about giving the interviewer a positive impression. I generally try to indulge my interviewers in their tangents, because, for one, they're usually actually pretty interesting, but also because interviews simply aren't about content as much as they're about personality. Your application probably already has all of the content they'd get from an interview, so don't worry if you're not able to give it to them again.
 
I just want to emphasize that this answer is off topic (not trying to insult you or anything, just I'm getting alot of answers along these lines). I am well aware what a med school interview is like, as I have been to 8. I am fine with the conversation part of the interview, I just feel uncomfortable when I don't talk for long periods. I think I might practice with friends on this part like someone suggested.

If it's about your comfort, then we can't really help you there. Sounds like a mental hump to reflect on.

In any case, good luck! Hope your interviews follow up with good news 🙂
 
Aerus finally got called out for trying to give seasoned advice when he just started college 2 months ago.

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At one of the schools that I interviewed at, one of my interviewers spoke about 75-80% of the time, in which he started by asking how I prepped for the mcat and what specialties I was interested in. After giving those answers, he proceeded to dive headlong into about a 25 minute rant that began by saying that he recommended that I take the mcat again if I didn't get in this cycle (I got a 29 so it was understandable advice, but not what you want to hear in an interview. Pretty much thought it was over at this point), how my interest in emergency medicine meant that I wanted shift work and a cushy lifestyle and that he knows too many people that got into medicine for money and easy hours and they hate their lives, unlike him who works a lot as an ENT but loves what he does. He then went into a a small rant about how people interested in primary care aren't driven enough in medical school because they think their scores don't matter and how he was interested in primary care but decided to push himself and so when he discovered he loved surgery, he had options.

All that to say, the entire time I smiled and nodded in agreement but there was never an opportunity to interject with anything more than the occasional "I agree." I left the interview feeling like I didn't get to say anything I wanted to him.

Accepted.
 
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Wait until residency interviews, for the most part you'll have a series of 8-14 15 minute interviews that are at best a 50-50 split of you answering their questions and them taking a much longer time to answer your questions. This is not necessarily a terrible thing; the interview is as much about you figuring out if you like the program/person as it is about them figuring out if they like you. What they go off on 'tangents' about and how the conversation goes can be very telling.
 
Just smile and nod. Talk when you think its appropriate but dont interrupt him with something like "so anyways going back to talking about me and my application". People love to talk so just let him or her do their thing.
 
If they talk a lot, show them that you're a good listener. Maybe that's what some of them are trying to assess. If they offer advice, compliments or criticisms, show that you can take it gracefully. 🙂
 
Let him talk. The goal of an interview is to make the interviewer happy.
 
Let him talk. The goal of an interview is to make the interviewer happy.

Disagree. The goal of the interview is to give your interviewer the ammunition he needs to get you accepted in the adcom. S/he's your advocate. Letting them talk for an hour won't give them a concretely strong opinion about you.
 
Disagree. The goal of the interview is to give your interviewer the ammunition he needs to get you accepted in the adcom. S/he's your advocate. Letting them talk for an hour won't give them a concretely strong opinion about you.

You can listen to him ramble on or you can interrupt him and annoyingly nudge him back to where "he should be." Which do you think he's going to like more, especially in hindsight at an admissions meeting? Remember, it's human nature to like people who like you.
 
Get
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Wait until residency interviews, for the most part you'll have a series of 8-14 15 minute interviews that are at best a 50-50 split of you answering their questions and them taking a much longer time to answer your questions. This is not necessarily a terrible thing; the interview is as much about you figuring out if you like the program/person as it is about them figuring out if they like you. What they go off on 'tangents' about and how the conversation goes can be very telling.

What?
 
Disagree. The goal of the interview is to give your interviewer the ammunition he needs to get you accepted in the adcom. S/he's your advocate. Letting them talk for an hour won't give them a concretely strong opinion about you.

I had one guy who spend the entire interview talking lol. I barely got in 2 sentence. Don't really know what to make of that one lol. I think he just wanted to know that I wanted to stay and Texas, and when he figured that out the rest didn't matter lol.
 
The meme is in context.

Look, I'm perfectly aware of what the general you can be interviewed for, but I'm interested in what YOU have been interviewed for. When I was a freshman in college, I was maybe interviewed for a position for a sales rep at the mall. And not sure all of the same techniques apply for that interview as a medical school interview...

You're right. Not all interviews are created equal. Obviously, you wouldn't treat your medical school interview with the same seriousness as an interview to join a girl scout's club, but many of the methods used to interview are also the same. Interviews have a common goal - to get to know you and, depending on the type of organization/person/whatever interviewing you, to test your communication skills and ability to think of your feet.

The meme wasn't in context. You use that meme only when another person states something so ridiculously obvious, even though it's apparent that everyone already knew that. From the context of your post, I wasn't quite sure you knew that....

I quote from you:

Have you been in any interview? I'm actually just curious, not questioning your actual advice, but your profile says you're a college freshman...

Many freshmen in college would have been in at least one interview already.

I normally would not say anything antagonistic on an online forum, but your post history is pretty ridic. You haven't been through the procedure of taking the MCATs and applying and interviewing, but somehow, you feel that you are knowledgeable enough to post comments like:

"Honestly, if people can get a 35+ while studying during the school year, so can you."

"I highly recommend NOT taking a class during the summer...."

"Your mistake was starting late..."

"Definitely take all advice from premed advisors with a grain of salt. SDN is your best source for information..."

What....?

1. If someone gets a 35+ while taking a bunch of courses during the school year and studies for the MCAT and scores well, one would assume that another person with near intellectual ability can also do the same during the summer, given they put enough effort and they don't suffer from incredibly horrible bad luck.

2. You took the second quote out of context. Taking summer classes is fine, but if he's shooting for a 35+, he should give himself as many advantages as possible. That's why I don't recommend him taking another class during the summer, especially since he was ahead of schedule anyways. I never told him "You will be stupid if you take a summer class". Obviously I just gave advice and that he can do whatever he wants because no one knows what he can handle better than him.

3. Starting late, especially in October, is a mistake when applying for the cycle. Mistakes happen. I never said "You are doomed to never get a single interview invite."

4. Not sure if you're aware, but many premed advisers, especially for state schools here in California, don't always give the best advice. It's always a good thing to confirm with SDN too. I never said "Don't listen to them completely!" I just told them to take their advice with a grain of salt.

Again, I'm not exactly sure what you know, from the context of your post, but much of this is pretty common knowledge.

No. Just some of these advice are actually pretty terrible, like SDN being a better source of info than your med school adviser and that anyone can get a 35. Thought someone should point out he/she has had no real experiences and really should be taken with a pinch of salt.

If any advice is terrible, someone else can give counter advice. SDN, like many forums, is a place to gather information from multiple sources. Again, this is my opinion, but SDN is one of the best sources of information for premeds. And I never said anyone can get a 35. Reading comprehension is your best friend, here. 🙂

Aerus finally got called out for trying to give seasoned advice when he just started college 2 months ago.

Many people have noticed before. I've been on SDN for a few months already. If I've been called out, it's already happened awhile ago. 😉
 
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The more the interviewer talks the better. If you can get them to talk about themselves for the entire time, you're gold. They may not actually know anything about you when you leave, but they will think it was a great interview.
 
He's not even the most annoying freshman here, by a longshot
 
I had one very enthusiastic interviewer who literally talked 90% of the time. Thought it was odd at the time but not after going through more interviews.
 
Hey! Be nice to Pitt faculty. They're very nice! 🙂

OK, I have no clue how you figured that one out!...or not, maybe, idk...just for the record, my interviewer was one of the nicest people I've met on the trail!
 
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