Anatomy was my best subject. These are the books I used with approximate proportions of time I spent studying each book:
1. Netter - 40%
2. Gray's Anatomy - 20%
3. Grant's - 15%
4. Gray's Anatomy for Students - 15%
5. McMinn's - 5%
6. Instant Anatomy - 3%
7. Moore - 2%
I used Netter as the primary resource for learning the structures for the first time. Netter's cross-section drawings were especially helpful to identify structures on slices.
I used Gray's anatomy as the primary textbook. I used the book extensively to clarify the things I did not understand in lectures and also for making summaries. I mostly used the search function of VitalBook and copied and pasted relevant sections from Gray's Anatomy to supplement my notes. I have both hard copy and electronic copy, but I hardly used the hard copy because it was too heavy and the print was too small for me. Without the electronic search function, it is difficult to get to the sections you want to read.
Grant's atlas has very helpful summary tables of innervation and blood supply, and I also found their schematic drawing of vessels and nerves very helpful. For studying certain regions, I found Grant's drawings to be more helpful than Netter's plates.
Gray's Anatomy for Students has excellent 3D illustrations. This is a great book to use as a textbook, and the illustrations clarified a lot of things that were not readily understandable from looking at plastinations. I found the book to be especially helpful to understand what structures are compartmentalized in which region.
I used McMinn's for self-test. Once I familiarized myself with the structures in Netter, I opened McMinn's and tried identifying each labeled structure. The dissected pictures look so different from Netter's drawings, and they were very helpful when preparing for practical exams.
I found Instant Anatomy to be extremely helpful when learning vessels and nerves the foramina they pass through. When learning vessels and nerves, don't just look at drawings. Instead, always have a pen and a piece of blank paper with you, and write out all the branches like a road map. You will notice that you can learn much more by spending 30 minutes drawing the nerve and vessel branches by yourself than staring at drawings in atlases for 3 hours.
I read Moore's textbook when I needed an extra resource for clarification.
If you can afford it, I strongly recommend getting a realistic skull model. At my school we were able to borrow a skull model for the entire semester. The skull model was essential for learning the skull bones and all those foramina for the first time.
So in conclusion, I highly recommend getting both Netter and Grant's atlases, and Instant Anatomy. Even if your school uses VitalBook, it is helpful to have a hard copy of Netter and Grant's. While I liked reading Gray's Anatomy on VitalBook, I don't recommend getting a hard copy of it. I would not have used it had it not been for the search function of VitalBook.
I hope this helps. Good luck.