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I'm not always great with conversations. I'm able to be confident and converse well when I'm sure of something, but if there's the slightest doubt in my mind, it's like everything shuts down. Like when a dog owner asks me something... I've never owned a dog in my life (and it's not feasible now), and when clients ask me questions, all I can do is tell them what I've heard. But, because I'm not positive that what I'm saying is correct, I jumble my sentences and end up feeling terribly stupid. This goes with almost anything that I'm not sure of, and so I spend half of every workday dwelling on something that I said or did that I consider stupid. And there are the times when I know what I want to say, but what's actually coming out is not quite that.
My questions for you guys are...
-- When your mouth doesn't go along with what your brain is telling you, do you find it easier/better to try to continue, or re-center yourself and try again?
-- What are your methods for getting past that stupid thing you said, that mistake, or that difficult client?
and last but not least..
-- In my situation, do you think my.. awkwardness.. is something I can remedy with time and/or experience/practice, or am I doomed to be incoherent?
My questions for you guys are...
-- When your mouth doesn't go along with what your brain is telling you, do you find it easier/better to try to continue, or re-center yourself and try again?
-- What are your methods for getting past that stupid thing you said, that mistake, or that difficult client?
and last but not least..
-- In my situation, do you think my.. awkwardness.. is something I can remedy with time and/or experience/practice, or am I doomed to be incoherent?