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And, I can wipe your *** with the TOS. Everyone says they read them, but, I have. Jailhouse lawyer got nothing on me!
And, I look like a total loser for several, in a row, posts, at just before 3am!
KLF, 1992, "It's 3am, 3am, 3am, etereeeernabal"!
How many people here even remember Quinn? I do, but it’s a short list of posters who have been on SDN for 20 years.
Apollyon, I suspect I am very similar to you IRL, even down to being a [lapsed] upstater and digging old-school ambient and gardening and obscure lit/pop references, so please don't take any of the following as intended to offend.
If you are interested, I would support you for mod, with reservations. You've been on SDN since I was in undergrad and you clearly know all the rules. And you can be great at reading between the lines and seeing details that other posters miss. And I usually agree with your advice.
But, you have also started some of the most awkward exchanges I've read in my 7 years on here. They sometimes appear to border on trolling to a third-party observer. I can pull out a few if you're curious. I can usually understand where you're coming from and what your goal/point is, although sometimes I have to think about it a bit. But if I were a med stud or a more neurotypical guy in general, I could easily see myself being offended, weirded out, or otherwise discouraged to post by some of your stuff.
Eg, what's the point of the 4 posts you just made above? Yes, the mod went overboard in playing the old/veteran card, but who cares if he's a med stud? Are you trying to publicly call him out, or show that you know more about the TOS than him, or institute behavior change, or what? Why not just PM him about all this instead of publicly fanning the flames?
TL;DR IMO most of us are on the same team and it's usually better to give newcomers or outsiders the benefit of the doubt.
Oh man - so passive/aggressive. If you are a combat vet - first, God's honest truth, thank you for your service, and thank heavens that you got home safely. But, as a combat vet, you know that trust extends to the soldier/sailor/Marine right next to you. I stand by my use of "dregs", as that is historical on SDN. That is not up to debate. My point was that one stands up, clearly, in the light, for what one does. Anonymous moderating has no honor, because, as Paul Newman said, "A man with no enemies is a man with no character". Stand up for what you stand, or what you believe. I'm telling you, after 19 years on SDN (appeal to authority), after the fact moderation looks REALLY weak. No character in that.
Over 21k posts and 19 2/3 years, I've posted some cringeworthy stuff. However, I stand by what I write. And, if you stand in the middle of the room, no matter which way you turn, someone's looking at your butt. If you try to please everyone, you please no one. And I've gotten no pushback from moderation to "rein it in" for about 6 years. I even put something up, and deleted it, and a zealous mod dinged me for it, after it was gone from the general population to see it. But, I've never had my username tinted that shade of blue for probation.Apollyon, I suspect I am very similar to you IRL, even down to being a [lapsed] upstater and digging old-school ambient and gardening and obscure lit/pop references, so please don't take any of the following as intended to offend.
If you are interested, I would support you for mod, with reservations. You've been on SDN since I was in undergrad and you clearly know all the rules. And you can be great at reading between the lines and seeing details that other posters miss. And I usually agree with your advice.
But, you have also started some of the most awkward exchanges I've read in my 7 years on here. They sometimes appear to border on trolling to a third-party observer. I can pull out a few if you're curious. I can usually understand where you're coming from and what your goal/point is, although sometimes I have to think about it a bit. But if I were a med stud or a more neurotypical guy in general, I could easily see myself being offended, weirded out, or otherwise discouraged to post by some of your stuff.
Eg, what's the point of the 4 posts you just made above? Yes, the mod went overboard in playing the old/veteran card, but who cares if he's a med stud? Are you trying to publicly call him out, or show that you know more about the TOS than him, or institute behavior change, or what? Why not just PM him about all this instead of publicly fanning the flames?
TL;DR IMO most of us are on the same team and it's usually better to give newcomers or outsiders the benefit of the doubt.
I don't know if I have the guts, man!I may step up to the plate again if you guys can stomach it.
Remember, no good deed goes unpunished!I may step up to the plate again if you guys can stomach it.
Huh. People talk about me for days, and no movement. He posts that, and, 1.5 hours later, it's done. Looks like the folks have a favorite kid!
That was my question too!And, if you are "only" a med student, how did you get verified as an expert?
Huh. People talk about me for days, and no movement. He posts that, and, 1.5 hours later, it's done. Looks like the folks have a favorite kid!
We were already in discussion about it before my post.
So, picture the scene (or, in the words of the late Prince, "Dig, if you will, the picture": back room, smoky from cigar chomping dogs playing poker (or, maybe, those angry, anthropomorphic crocodiles playing poker from that scene in "Shazam!"). SD and Lee are making some deal. It's surreal!We were already in discussion about it before my post.
Huh. People talk about me for days, and no movement. He posts that, and, 1.5 hours later, it's done. Looks like the folks have a favorite kid!
So, picture the scene (or, in the words of the late Prince, "Dig, if you will, the picture": back room, smoky from cigar chomping dogs playing poker (or, maybe, those angry, anthropomorphic crocodiles playing poker from that scene in "Shazam!"). SD and Lee are making some deal. It's surreal!
I like my Dali-esque image better!Keep in mind it's a lot easier to bring a mod back than it is to start with someone new to mod'ing.
This has been a fascinating thread... I had always wondered how moderators were chosen.
Well... I guess this thread did a poor job of answering that question lol. Nothing against Southern doc, but it seemed like the regulars here had come together as a group to support Apollyon. I guess we learned one thing... it's not a democratic process.This has been a fascinating thread... I had always wondered how moderators were chosen.
Well... I guess this thread did a poor job of answering that question lol. Nothing against Southern doc, but it seemed like the regulars here had come together as a group to support Apollyon. I guess we learned one thing... it's not a democratic process.
Southerndoc has served this forum well over time, so I'm sure he will continue to do well. I just wish this was handled a little better or that both would be the moderators.
It seems odd for Arch to suggest this group come together and suggest a new moderaror only for us to do exactly that then have our opinions ignored.