He asked what I would do if I had a patient who smoked and refused to quit. I said that smoking was legal, and while I would encourage the patient to quit, if he didn't, there wasn't anything I could do. Unfortunately, the interviewer was a pulmonary oncologist, and my libertarian attitude did not impress him. Things went steadily downhill from there. I was not the most diplomatic person at age 17.
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you're actually curious and not just trying to pick a fight with me. First of all, I'm not 100% sure that I did get in now. The admissions director at the school that I thought had accepted me told me that I was actually waitlisted. So it's possible that I just got the two schools confused (the other admissions director couldn't find my record), or it's possible that I was waitlisted at both schools and am confused in general.
But the major answer to your question is that I was engaged to my ex, and he didn't get into grad school anywhere in our home state, but we both got into grad school in another state. So that's where we went.
If y'all who are trads want to learn a lesson from my example, the best one I can offer you is to not plan your future around your bf or gf. The person you think you want to spend your life with at age 21 may not be quite as perfect for you five or ten years later. So take care of your own future first, and let the relationship work itself out if it's meant to be.