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This is from my "why doctor's die thread" because DHB referred to this thread when posting.
So you agree your goal is a quick exit. I work with kids. I had a dad tell me point blank (he was a vet, so very interesting perspective))--"I don't want to kill him with morphine"-- so we pulled the tube and gave a touch of the stuff and let things ride their course. Not everyone wants a quick exit. And my opioid dose should not be the cause of death. Many of my parents want the interventions stopped, drugs given, monitors off, and time-- be it minutes-hours to spend with their children while they still have a sign of life-- as long as they seem comfortable. Some of these parents ask to sleep in bed with their child in their last moments, or just hold them. And that's my job. It's ridiculous to say the ICU and palliative medicine don't go hand in hand. I realize the adult world might be different. But it's not THAT different. If you decide ICU is your thing-- you should be prepared to deal with the vast ethical and emotional aspects of palliative medicine-- and doing it well. There's no room for wham bam thank you m'aam.
Oh please, it's just ridiculous imo to be so conservative with the drugs you are giving to someone you've sentenced to death by stopping dialysis/vent/other life maintaining therapies.
Load them up, quick exit, everybody's happy.
So you agree your goal is a quick exit. I work with kids. I had a dad tell me point blank (he was a vet, so very interesting perspective))--"I don't want to kill him with morphine"-- so we pulled the tube and gave a touch of the stuff and let things ride their course. Not everyone wants a quick exit. And my opioid dose should not be the cause of death. Many of my parents want the interventions stopped, drugs given, monitors off, and time-- be it minutes-hours to spend with their children while they still have a sign of life-- as long as they seem comfortable. Some of these parents ask to sleep in bed with their child in their last moments, or just hold them. And that's my job. It's ridiculous to say the ICU and palliative medicine don't go hand in hand. I realize the adult world might be different. But it's not THAT different. If you decide ICU is your thing-- you should be prepared to deal with the vast ethical and emotional aspects of palliative medicine-- and doing it well. There's no room for wham bam thank you m'aam.