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How do you handle questions from patients when they realize that somethin aint right, and their diagnosis is much worse than they thought?
Case in point: patient comes in for a robotic lobectomy for suspected cancer. As soon as the camera goes in, we see that the mass is adherent to the pleura. Surgeon says, "Stage 4, we're done here," and we drop the patient off in PACU much much earlier than expected. The patient then looks me in the eyes and asks, "I thought I'd be under till the afternoon, why am I awake so early?"
In the past, I've tried to say something like, "I'm really not sure, I was too busy taking care of the breathing tube. You'll have to ask Dr. Thorax, he'll be by to talk to you later." But I feel like patients know that that is BS, and then they're just anxious about what you're withholding from them.
Even though we're physicians, I don't think it's our place to break bad news to people since our relationship with them is different. But I feel like I'm lying when I don't divulge what I know about them, and it seems wrong to know something so deeply personal about them that they didn't mean to share with you.
Case in point: patient comes in for a robotic lobectomy for suspected cancer. As soon as the camera goes in, we see that the mass is adherent to the pleura. Surgeon says, "Stage 4, we're done here," and we drop the patient off in PACU much much earlier than expected. The patient then looks me in the eyes and asks, "I thought I'd be under till the afternoon, why am I awake so early?"
In the past, I've tried to say something like, "I'm really not sure, I was too busy taking care of the breathing tube. You'll have to ask Dr. Thorax, he'll be by to talk to you later." But I feel like patients know that that is BS, and then they're just anxious about what you're withholding from them.
Even though we're physicians, I don't think it's our place to break bad news to people since our relationship with them is different. But I feel like I'm lying when I don't divulge what I know about them, and it seems wrong to know something so deeply personal about them that they didn't mean to share with you.