
...thanks howui3....
by the way, beleive it or not, i only discovered recently (in the past few months) that guys have created a new meaning for the word gay (gay=annoying) and i do think it is wrong, not because i am a gay chauvinist or a raving hippie but bacause of the history of the term. anyways, not arguing here but allow me to remind every guy on this forum that it was homosexual men and women who chose to apply the term
gay on themselves as an alternative to other colloquial, yet belittling, terms like queer, f---g...etc. this was done for the sole purpose of imrproving image and acceptability in the maistream. after all the struggle that gay people have gone through, now straight men seem to have come up with a new way to show resistance to tolerant american culture (hey gays, hey academics! you keep teaching us in our schools and colleges that gay is ok and that we cannot use f---g anymore but guess what? we still disagree with you and we think gay is not ok, and thus we will use the very word gay to describe anything that is annoying to us).....it's some kinda counter-culture....gay people coined the term
gay to imrpove their image and straight men seek to reduce the term's usefullness to gays by transforming its meaning to
annoying, as opposed to
happy.