I'm a former RN that is now in med school. First of all, how different programs are perceived is highly subjective and you should take everyone's opinions with a grain of salt, including mine. Nursing school for me was fairly easy, and I received all A's. I hated a lot of it though, because a lot of it was working on bull**** group projects. I find that med school is much more up my alley since it is hard science-based and the instructors don't give us busywork.
That said, I don't think med school is that bad. I go to the gym every day, hang with family, and I rarely study past 6pm, even during exam weeks. My performance thus far is in the top 5% of my class. I had a good MCAT score and from talking with my classmates, those with higher scores tend to think med school is more chill. Some people have to work harder than others to pass, and that's ok. You need to just do you, and be aware of your strengths/weaknesses. I think you'll find that none of the material is terribly challenging from an intellectual perspective, there can just be a LOT of it. If you can get through organic chemistry I don't think there's any reason you can't get through med school just fine.
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SOME first year med students are kind of whiny and want to paint the picture that med school is the hardest thing one could ever undertake in order to impress family/friends. In reality, it can be a pretty good life. I have more time with family than I every had when I was working full time. I never work nights or weekends if I don't want. How many other post-college grads can say that? The reality is that if you want to get ahead, you gotta bust your butt at some point. Some people do that in the work world, and we just happen to do it in school. If anything I think that med school has given me more respect for the average working person who does their job day in day out for a mediocre paycheck. At the end of med school we'll all have great jobs which is not something that everyone can say.
Hahaha we'll see what I think next year when I'm preparing for step, I think that I'll be a lot busier. I know that MS2 can be a bigger challenge and I don't want to underestimate it. Just taking it a year at a time right now