
I think the secret videotaping is what they meant. Either way...ugh.Well he didn't go into detail about it but from what I know it's not illegal if the incident happened at his friend's place and the act was consensual.
I think the secret videotaping is what they meant. Either way...ugh.
Wow, that's pretty horrible that it is legal. Either way, I kind of get the point of the interviewer that "Wow, these are the people you associate with?"That's what I meant. It's legal if you have a hidden camera set up in your house but it would be illegal if you had it set up at someone else's house bc that's spying/an invasion of their privacy. Yeah that was an awkward situation lol
>5:30am, waiting at a Dunkin Donuts across the XSOM for my 8:00am interview day to start.
>Drinking coffee.
>6:30am now.
>Notice I'm not wearing a suit jacket.
>Panics, considers bailing out on interview.
>Goes through interview day hoping nobody cares.
>Accepted.
A fellow interviewee told me this happened to him
Panel: You're in a frat?
Him: Yes
Panel: *Googles his frat* so I see your frat had a rape allegation last fall
Him: Ummm the charges were dropped
Panel: So do you condone rape?
Him: No! It was dropped bc he secretly videotaped the whole thing and the police agreed that it was consensual
Panel: Ummmmm next question
I can't imagine being asked/answering that kind of question...
A fellow interviewee told me this happened to him
Panel: You're in a frat?
Him: Yes
Panel: *Googles his frat* so I see your frat had a rape allegation last fall
Him: Ummm the charges were dropped
Panel: So do you condone rape?
Him: No! It was dropped bc he secretly videotaped the whole thing and the police agreed that it was consensual
Panel: Ummmmm next question
I can't imagine being asked/answering that kind of question...
I keep hearing about these "stress interviews" but I haven't seen anyone defend the rationale behind it. The stress of MMIs makes sense, but aren't schools worried about creating a poor impression with these faculty interviews? Or about perpetuating an aggressive atmosphere in medicine?Public service announcement! This is an interesting interview conversation because of the huge jump from allegation (in red) to the assumption of guilt in the following question. The answer about the videotaping is, well, novel, but the interviewee could have also handled the Q by saying that "we're innocent until proven guilty" or "there was no proof that the charge was valid" or something along those lines.
This does seem to wander into a law school interview, but my key point here is that interviewees should be very flexible in mental gymnastics during a stress interview (which this clearly was).
I keep hearing about these "stress interviews" but I haven't seen anyone defend the rationale behind it. The stress of MMIs makes sense, but aren't schools worried about creating a poor impression with these faculty interviews? Or about perpetuating an aggressive atmosphere in medicine?
I had a stress interview and it really made me question whether I'd want to go to such a school. Especially after other schools emphasized that they valued their students and wanted us to know about all the resources they offer to cope with emotional and academic stress.
There are a lot of pronouns here and I'm on NyQuil so I'm interpreting this to mean I'll be on compassionate care detail when my interviewer finally goes to the great curriculum vitae in the sky, which is kind of morbid of you, @Lawper.As @Goro said elsewhere when he had to restrain his hungry student from devouring an interviewee for having little clinical experience, interviewers being angry jerks to interviewees is a good thing because they care for them in the end.
For me, i'll probably give them a hypertension medication so that they don't die from a heart attack during the interview 😛
I keep hearing about these "stress interviews" but I haven't seen anyone defend the rationale behind it. The stress of MMIs makes sense, but aren't schools worried about creating a poor impression with these faculty interviews? Or about perpetuating an aggressive atmosphere in medicine?
I had a stress interview and it really made me question whether I'd want to go to such a school. Especially after other schools emphasized that they valued their students and wanted us to know about all the resources they offer to cope with emotional and academic stress.
Was accepted to the school! Guess it doesn't matter that I'm the lonely fork in the appliance departmentInterviewer: If you could be a kitchen appliance, which appliance would you be?
Me: A fork, because it's multipurpose.
Just completely botched the answer by giving a utensil instead of an appliance.
Nah I don't buy it. Not enough justification for making the school seem aggressive and irrational. I think "stress interview" is a euphemism for an interviewer temporarily drunk with power.There are lots of interviewers who want to see how you perform under pressure.
And believe it or not, not all interview answers are perfect, and as such, require follow up. Sometimes poor answers deserve a skewering, too.
Nah I don't buy it. Not enough justification for making the school seem aggressive and irrational. I think "stress interview" is a euphemism for an interviewer temporarily drunk with power.

Nah I don't buy it. Not enough justification for making the school seem aggressive and irrational. I think "stress interview" is a euphemism for an interviewer temporarily drunk with power.
I can see how a person might find it hard to imagine.Drunk with power, indeed.![]()
This made me cringe, was it really worth your time to correct him?
This made me cringe, was it really worth your time to correct him?
Is it worth your time to keep defending yourself?Was it really worth your time to quote a several week old post?
AbsolutelyIs any of this worth anyone's time?
I mean other than the fact that it can be seen as pretentious, it is also a huge waste of PS space!Me: "I see you mentioned your SAT and MCAT score in your personal statement. Why was that?"
Interviewee: "Because I did well and I wanted to emphasize that."
Please never do this.
I would agree to some extent that it can be to see how one reacts under pressure. But on the other hand I just didn't appreciate the follow up comments where they basically said that certain medical fields would just be too hard for me. Seriously? How am I supposed to respond to that? "Thank you?"
Yeah that would have been smart...."I respectfully disagree, [insert reasoning]..."
That's a pretty obvious challenge prompt where they insult you and try to see how you react.
Yeah, dude, the way I see it: you're an interviewer at this giant school. You're interviewing someone who's maybe wearing their first real suit, and they can't believe how much it cost to look that boring. They've just spent four years or more putting everything they've got just to be sitting in front of you. They've spent thousands of dollars getting an application submitted, hours writing essays. They've likely spent hundreds of dollars just getting to that one interview, taking off time from work or school, with lots of pressure from people waiting back home.
Every interview is a @&$*! stress interview. The interviewer has the upper hand. If the student is falling apart, or can't answer a question, just let them show that, take note, and move on. There's no reason to be a jerk about it. No reason to pounce. They are your GUEST. Schools that don't respect that basic and soooooo obvious dynamic? I struggle to believe they'll turn out compassionate doctors.
Life's tough, get a helmet.
I know you said this a while ago, but I would hate to have you as my interviewer. you sound like a prick. Sorry. I don't mean to call you names, but I am just calling it like I see it!OK, I'll play.
Me (to interviewee): So tell me about your interest in X?
Interviewee: Well, I like X because...(sound of brain seizing up)...uhh, what was the question?
Me (thinking) Reject!
Here's another:
Lucy (an MD colleague of mine): So Joe, do you ave any questions for us?
Joe: yes, Lucy, why did join the faculty here?
Lucy and me (thinking) Reject!Note: Do not, ever, address an interviewer by their first name.
Shots fired!I know you said this a while ago, but I would hate to have you as my interviewer. you sound like a prick. Sorry. I don't mean to call you names, but I am just calling it like I see it!
Shots fired!
But for real, if you think it's okay to come off as disrespectful or as an airhead, you're going to have a hard time in your interviews.
Interviews are difficult enough. Having an interviewer who you can't connect with professionally makes it even more nerve racking. I mean deciding on an applicant because of one minor (and mind you, pretty subjective) hitch seems harsh and a very poor execution of judgement. Thankfully,
I have learned to overcome these types of people but some people just can't do it!
I know you said this a while ago, but I would hate to have you as my interviewer. you sound like a prick. Sorry. I don't mean to call you names, but I am just calling it like I see it!
Further, if you can't handle your nerves in an interview, medicine will not be an easy path.
Interviews are difficult enough. Having an interviewer who you can't connect with professionally makes it even more nerve racking. I mean deciding on an applicant because of one minor (and mind you, pretty subjective) hitch seems harsh and a very poor execution of judgement. Thankfully,
I have learned to overcome these types of people but some people just can't do it!
So having a interview candidate who can't answer a simple question is a good thing?
Good luck with your career as a non doctor.
Your thinking is a bit too short sighted to make sense. Interviewers aren't looking for candidates who make good med students, they are looking for candidates who make good doctors. Being level-headed under pressure is a must when you are responsible for someones life.I hear this a lot but I don't believe it. The med school interview is not comparable to getting pimped on rounds, or getting yelled at by an attending during a time-critical procedure in the ED. Why? Because the med school interview is the critical decision point for an entire career, and many applicants realize that. Years of hard work at building up an application can be nullified by (apparently) not answering a single question to the satisfaction of an interviewer. Compare that to rounds: yes, a student might not know the answer to something and might get laughed at (or worse) but it is highly unlikely that the student is going to get kicked out of school for the wrong answer.
Your thinking is a bit too short sighted to make sense. Interviewers aren't looking for candidates who make good med students, they are looking for candidates who make good doctors. Being level-headed under pressure is a must when you are responsible for someones life.
Let's stick to respectful opinions, if you would please. Thank you.
The example you provided is terrible. I understand that tying off arteries is stressful, but casting a judgement based off of one answer is a ludicrous and very sorry way to justify not accepting someone into medical school. There are two types of AdComs. Those who look at the applicant for the facts that they present, and those that just reject because they can. Unfortunately based off of what you said, you fall into the second category. People get nervous. It's life. It's a huge step for whatever 22 or 23 year old that is in front of you. Definitely not the same type of stress as having training and being experienced in a particular training. Just sitting there and thinking "REJECT" before you even had a chance to get to know them is God awful.
I hope I never run into you as my interviewer, because I would feel like I'm wasting my time.
I have said all I have to say, without personally attacking you. Let's see if you can do the same 😉